i hate kids sports leagues
shits so dumb. people get so angry about their kids not moving up leagues by such and such age.
my wife really angry my daughter isnt moving up in cheer. first of all, the chance you are ever going to turn that into a career is like 1 in a million. also, there are still lots of skills to be learned in this league. i dont understand the rush.
also people seem unable to see their child as a part of the larger organization. they just think "my child has the skills, why dont they get a chance? its not fair". nothing is fair. imo unless you are absolutely dominating your league, you shouldnt move up early. my wife is angry she has paid all this money for extra training and she isnt being moved up. She is missing the point imo.
there was this guy i knew called Jay
i used to think he was weird, he did weird tricks, dressed weird, but in actuality, we were probably quite similar in skill level. i thought i was a lot better than him at the time. then eventually i kinda of lost interest in skating for a bit, but he just kept skating. i saw him many years later and he was absolutely killing it, and he kind of grew into his style and he is actually the nicest guy ever. he is a way better skater and human than i will ever be.
i told this story to my wife but she couldnt care less
whoosh right over her head