Oh man, I'm here for the camping gear madness. Big preamble because I'm going to advise against some of the above posts, no disrespect fellow slappers. Steve, you're a straight G for sleeping on that thing for half a calendar year. Was a flyfishing guide for years. Gotta stay alive and comfortable to keep house cat gastroenterologist clients alive and comfortable in nasty conditions, so good gear is important. Most stuff I'm recommending is industry standard for Oregon guides. Full disclosure, I'm a buy once, cry once type and I got a lot of my shit proform. Don't order the well and the stuff will last.
100% agreed on synthetic bag. And a blue tarp. A "wing", something like the REI Half Dome tarp, will save a rainy trip and provide shade if needed. Maybe consider a 2 person bag for you and the lady? Nature snuggles are the best.
The best car camping/boat camping pad is the Thermarest MondoKing. Self inflating but you gotta blow it up a little with your mouth. Winter or summer. Probably more comfortable than my bed. Not cheap and pretty big when rolled up but them's the breaks. I delamed 2 with a heater(didn't tell them that of course) and they replaced them.
Unless you plan on returning it at Walmart, I'd avoid Coleman for tents, pads, and probably bags. It's like buying a Walmart complete. I've had good luck with my Kelty tents and they are reasonably priced. Some homies like MSR and Mountain Hardware, as stated above. Go bigger than you think if you have the room in the ride, it's nice to have lots of space and stand up in there if possible. Use a footprint or a blue tarp.
Sounds decadent but a couple things I love to have:
-Weber Go Anywhere grill
-Camp Chef Everest 2X - recent add that's amazing
-Secura stainless french press if you're a coffee person
-Mr Heater Buddy - one of the best purchases along with the Mondo King, will have you camping into cold weather and keep your lady happy on the chilly mornings, ya know, just don't delam your pad with it.
-Half or 1 gallon water jug(s) - can reuse the plastic disposable ones from the store but those can spring a leak and you're effed.
-Diamond Strike-a-fire fire starters - get a fire going in any conditions
-Lifetime folding table - nice for undeveloped sites with no picnic table. Table folds in half, not just legs.
-Psilocybin
I may buy a solo stove for undeveloped sites with no fire pit but them shits expensive, gonna need a sale. Partner Steel makes a fire pan that's cheaper and much more packable.
I know I went overboard here, I love me some camping and stoked you're getting into it.