friends with benefits/ casual relationships

[bert]

my specific problem right now is that we hooked up and thats it for her, while im left wanting more. and because we are good friends and we see each other quite often that sucks a little bit.

[woody]

For 'hooking up', I care less about the friendship factor, because then your interaction is sexually based. But if I'm going to be in a longterm relationship with a girl I wouldn't want to be with some bitch whos only positive quality is shes good in the 'sack'. Also, I don't mean they have to be my friend already, but someone who's personality I like and would have fun hanging out with when not having sex.

[bert]

but someone who's personality I like and would have fun hanging out with when not having sex.

that's a given. i don't really care that much about sex to be honest.

[bert]

annd by "wanting more" I mean a relationship of sorts

[Royal Flush]

Stop being a emotional wuss bag and get in control of your emotions pussy. Thats what Segrean Payne used to tell me all the time. Now i dont know what u heard bout me but im a P.I.M.P.

Seriously just think over your life and priorities and see if this relationship is worthwhile. She prob broke up with the asshole and is using you as a comfort/reboundf person to boost her self esteam while shes trying to think over what she REALLY wants which is usually the opposite of what she tells you. Look for body language(closed= lies, open = truth), facial expressions sad happy, tone of voice when she tellls you what she says.

If your fuckin multilple biches make sure to maintain the power in the relationship. Always end calls first, end chill sessions/ dates first, tell her your busy later on. It just creates value and anticiaption which hopeuflly u have some hobbies besides skating to make you a fun and interesting individual.

The FB system is good by the way i got 2 girls on it right now for about 4 months could of done 3 but i love to skate more than i like girls. Since shes just so emotionally fucked up tell her something like this " I know your going through alot with your bf and maybe getting into a relationship wouldnt be the best option for you right now since you need time to recover, but i like women who follow the natural way and go according to there instincts so we should just feel comfortable in each others presence and if one thing leads to another so be itl... it was natural after all"

Then this bich will smile and wanna suck your dick and she can imagine about what the relationship is in her fucked up mind and never have a clear answer making for constant sexual relations,

GO pick up girls too everywhere u go too... expand and fuck that pussssy!

[Bklynbank]

ah i see the thread is now revived, yeap

[Self-Educated]

It worked for me, just for a month. Then you won't be friends anymore at all.

[obeygiant]

this is funny because 80% of slap are probably virgins

[loophole]

heres my curve now that im in vietnam, and its seriously working.
ok well first off vietnam isnt just dirty asian hoes
im talkin expats here, lookers too

ok, so i purposely went into the friend zone, with some slight hints here and there, but nothing real, with as many girls possible. eventually when i became pretty good friends with 5 girls who i was attracted to (and their respective ugly friends to get some compassion points), i went straight into this other chick from another district from the french school, lasted 1 week, then fucked off.
then told a friend who i knew couldnt hold his mouth shut
suddenly
all those girls who i was friends with all started to like me more for 'some strange reason', and whatever, i told one of them, the one i liked the most of course, the next week, that i liked her, the next day we were dating.
so now i already have my 'b squad' set up

but yeah
libido is a cool thing

[eight oh eight]

are you talking about girls in vietnam or the States (or wherever you're from)?

[j....soy.....]

man...i got a fucking married on the weekend...

[Ronald Wilson Reagan]

i have a habit of first befriending girls and then falling in love with them. really annoying.

Its happened to me a couple times, and then comes the question "Now what the fuck do I do?"

[loophole]

are you talking about girls in vietnam or the States (or wherever you're from)?

western girls who live in vietnam

[Evil Kraken from the Arctic Sea]

man...i got a fucking married on the weekend...

Drunk?

[Sleazy]

little rich Xpat girls. Living in southeast asia is like living in a small town with nothing but rich people. My family currenlty lives in Kalu lumpar (sp), Malaysia. I was raised partially in Singapore and Thialand.

[loophole]

yeah... it sucks right? but i dont really have a choice. ive lived in singapore as well... just moved out there.

[Sleazy]

It was fun when I lived there but would be lame now. Singapore is too strict and Thailand is too sketch. I can't imagine skating is legal on any level in singapore. When I lived there bubble gum was illegal.

[Ronald Wilson Reagan]

It was fun when I lived there but would be lame now. Singapore is too strict and Thailand is too sketch. I can't imagine skating is legal on any level in singapore. When I lived there bubble gum was illegal.

Wan't there a recent coup in Thailand?

[eight oh eight]

there's a skatepark in Singapore, but can't imagine street skating to be received so well.

and yeah turkey, there was.

[Sleazy]

When isn't there a one. My Dad was there one time when one went down. I think they have had some shit like that every 5-10years over there.

[jared...]

i know, going down on hairy chicks is a bit tricky...

[Lakai or die]

Stop being a emotional wuss bag and get in control of your emotions pussy. Thats what Segrean Payne used to tell me all the time. Now i dont know what u heard bout me but im a P.I.M.P.

Seriously just think over your life and priorities and see if this relationship is worthwhile. She prob broke up with the asshole and is using you as a comfort/reboundf person to boost her self esteam while shes trying to think over what she REALLY wants which is usually the opposite of what she tells you. Look for body language(closed= lies, open = truth), facial expressions sad happy, tone of voice when she tellls you what she says.

If your fuckin multilple biches make sure to maintain the power in the relationship. Always end calls first, end chill sessions/ dates first, tell her your busy later on. It just creates value and anticiaption which hopeuflly u have some hobbies besides skating to make you a fun and interesting individual.

The FB system is good by the way i got 2 girls on it right now for about 4 months could of done 3 but i love to skate more than i like girls. Since shes just so emotionally fucked up tell her something like this " I know your going through alot with your bf and maybe getting into a relationship wouldnt be the best option for you right now since you need time to recover, but i like women who follow the natural way and go according to there instincts so we should just feel comfortable in each others presence and if one thing leads to another so be itl... it was natural after all"

Then this bich will smile and wanna suck your dick and she can imagine about what the relationship is in her fucked up mind and never have a clear answer making for constant sexual relations,

GO pick up girls too everywhere u go too... expand and fuck that pussssy!

damn, man you've got that down, so true sooo true

[jared...]

nah, fuck playing chicks.  you're gonna wake up and realize you're serving these virgin girls straight to satan, and that act won't come without a price...YOUR SOUL BOUND TO THE ETERNAL FLAMES OF DAMNATION!!!!

[loophole]

there's a skatepark in Singapore, but can't imagine street skating to be received so well.

and yeah turkey, there was.

the park is modular, and like any big city skating isnt recieved well. before i moved out this summer, i skated there every sat and sunday for 3 years straight, never got a ticket (but i did get chased a couple times). skating is the fucking shit there, almost every building in the city is skateable, at least half has marble

as ive said before (under a diff name) singapore, together with tokyo, osaka, hong kong, shanghai and maybe some others will be the new places to go to on your holidays.

i was in thailand during the coup, wasnt a huge deal, i didnt even notice it.

[Ronald Wilson Reagan]

i was in thailand during the coup, wasnt a huge deal, i didnt even notice it.

Really? Why did I assume this was some sort of big deal. Didn't the military take control of the government? That's not noticable? Wow. Please don't take this as me doubting you, its just kinda crazy. I imagined tribunals and flaming villages, not just another day.

[loophole]

nah, it was more like they just rolled in with their cars, silent and shit, and just talked on tv.

[loophole]

I guess you weren´t at Bangkok, because there it was big deal. I mean it was all in alla very peaceful coup, no violence at all, but there were tanks all over the city. My girlfriends (whoops, EX since a few days) father works there...

yeah... but they didnt really do anything... just drove around.
most people acted like it was nothing though it was kind of funny

[Sleazy]

Yeah, I heard it was basically just a bunch of guys coming into town in tanks and saying this shit is ours. I think if the goverment would have resisted the raping, burning and pillaging would have started.

[Evil Kraken from the Arctic Sea]

Yeah, I heard it was basically just a bunch of guys coming into town in tanks and saying this shit is ours.

Yeah, you put it really well!

[DarthDingusMaximus]

Bump this thread as I didn’t want to start a new one.

So it seems I have a girlfriend these days and I’m super excited about it. We couldn’t stand each other when I lived in Denver but through a series of unfortunate experiences past and over the last 18 years we’ve had similar experiences and are mature with handling things differently and rationally.

I’m going to be going to Manitou springs this Sunday from Denver. She’s a professional masseuse and herbalist. I’m on cloud 9 and I couldn’t be happier.