I still love my ex-girlfriend even though i shouldn't. we went together like oil and water and we both tried way to hard to try and make the relationship work when we should of given up a long time ago. because of this relationship (my fault, no one is at blame but me) it turned me into an angry, depressed un-motivated pile of crap, i used and abused alot of subtance's to try and mask all the stress the relationship brought on, i wasted close to 3 years of my life and did not take very good care of myself. I'm doing alot better now in the last 3 months but it's still an uphill battle here and there to stay sane and happy. it's too bad we couldn't learn to just be friends, it might have worked itself into a loving relationship that way in the long run or it could of just stopped things from turning bad and saved us both alot of grief. I wish i could of been more grounded and put together when we first met, instead i was fransitioning from a skateboarding career into trying to figure out what i was going to do with the rest of my life, i was somewhat of a wreck during that time too but it just got worse as the next few years unfolded.
I'm doing a hell of alot better now and learning to except things that i can't control in my life instead of masking it or running away from the problem but it's still going to take sometime. I'm moving to a new place that is a one bedroom that i'll be living by myself, i haven't lived bt myself for a long time and pretty phsyched on it because i think it will help me become an even better person.