We don't like it when the general public gets mad at us for skating, dressing, or acting how we want. Yet skaters hate on other skaters for how they dress, how they skate, how they talk, etc. It's not really any different than the general public trying to get you to conform.
If it's not "take off the sunglasses indoors", it's "take off the hat indoors". As if we're all supposed to subscribe to some conservative manners. Is this your dinner table and you've been offended? Expressing these complaints will only cause most skaters to rebel more against your rules.