^ I took girls to bars or after the date get a six pack and watch a movie at my house. I had more dates during my drinking days so got laid a lot more than sober me. For sober me i got laid like 2 or maybe 3 times? It really all just depends on the girl. Like you don't want to be that dude who gets the girl wasted on a date then take advantage of them, that was like me but the other way around. Its pretty easy making a girl relaxed without drinking. For me i just don't shut up on dates, ill talk about anything for any amount of time, i just hate awkward silence. The only time i don't talk is when im eating, thats my time and no one is going to disturb me from it.