To recap,
A girl had consensual, unprotected sex with a dude who knowingly had herpes and did not disclose.
If he did disclose, the girl most likely would not have consented.
The dude lied to get his dick wet and infected her.
Yet the first reaction of so many guys here is to talk about how she rolled the dice, and it’s her fault, TOTALLY MISSING THE MAIN PROBLEM OF THE DUDE LYING AND KNOWINGLY INFECTING SOMEONE WHO TRUSTED THEM.
And then, regale is with stories of how women can’t be trusted, as if that has any fucking bearing on the situation at hand.
If you are being shit on for these opinions, it’s because in your view, the most pressing matter is what the girl did wrong, NOT the obvious problem of lying and infecting someone.
Yes, we all agree that you ‘shouldn’t’ go raw with someone you just met. But I’ve rolled the dice, as have many of us. Because we trusted the other person.
This is all on Johan, (and his increasingly visible history of this behavior).
Don’t get it twisted.