I think I've settled on what my most consistent setup is 100%
8.25" x 14.25" wb BBS
Indy standard 149
Bones swiss
53mm spitfire F4 99a classics
I don't think I ever want to fuck with hollow standards or 8.5" decks anymore
I don't really feel the urge to mess with my bushings anymore either.
I think I've deleted all the madness with axle washers, bushings, truck models and sizes, bearings, decks. The hardest one to kill is wheel madness. Ive gotten it down to where I think I'm good though. A small range. Wheels wear down anyways and each individual size isn't that important. But something like a 3mm jump in size can change everything.
I'd be fine on 52s or 54s, and probably bigheads instead of classics, and not notice a difference, depending on what the shop has. I'd probably prefer bigheads if I have to get 52s though. I'm not against skating classic 99 formula either if I have to
I think I'll probably end up skating a lot of 54mm 93a classics though that's probably my favorite wheel right now.
Wheels are kinda like shoes cause they wear down quicker so I can always try something a little different here and there that isn't going to fuck up my skating. Bigheads, classics, classic fulls. 52, 53, 54mm. 93, 97, 99, 101a. Anything in that range should be totally fine
If the shop doesn't have 8.25 x 14.25wb I know I can always still fuck with a blue eagle or b16
But I'm unwilling to substitute standard indys for hollows anymore. It just changes like, the soul of the setup.
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As for shoes, with my wide ass foot
I'm pretty set on Jordan 1s. Classic style/matches my clothes well, has some skateboarding heritage, I can find them on sale at a buncha places, but most importantly they fit my foot and have a lot of lateral stability that I don't have in other shoes. Bonus is that they last, and have that lateral strap coming up for the bottom three laces in the exact spot I put the most wear on. Same spot my foot spills over the outsole on skinnier shoes. And they got hella good boardfeel and an airbag in the heel. I put FP kingfoam flat 5mm or 7mm insoles in.

Top: dunk
Bottom: aj1
I can get away with blazers and dunk SBs and stuff fine but they don't last me nearly as long in the heelflip/Ollie area. I'm gonna get some angelus leather paint so I can paint over the swoosh, or paint over a colorful shoe I got on sale or something. Like if it's the black blazers with the white swoosh, I can just paint over the swoosh black so it isn't like a big advertisement. I'm gonna try the white paint over the red swoosh on some AJ1 mids I'm currently skating.
I'll skate the Jordan 1s till they're pretty fucked up, then save em as chill/beater shoes to wear to shows and stuff
I'm interested in the reboot iPaths and the LRAB cupsoles though but I'll probably just stick to AJ1s
Trying to get my shit minimal style like a cartoon character or something always wearing the same shit