Things You Are Not Stoked On

[rawr1922]

Nothing private nowadays.  One day , search history will haunt me . Thanks Google. Google your name & cities you lived in. So much personal info popped up on Whitepages & a few other sites . Contacted wp to remove my listing .

[hangontoyourego]

for the two fighting “it’s all over but the shouting”

[DarthDingusMaximus]

So it’s my fault for wanting to keep my identity private? How can you fault me on that? I don’t want to reveal my number, I don’t want to reveal my name or who I am, you need to accept that and get on with yourself. I didn’t hit you up for help, I appreciate your offer but I don’t want it. Get over yourself.

Whatever dude

[Dracula]

Why the fuck does thrasher crop their IG videos into 1:1. And it’s not like they don’t know they can keep it 16:9 or 4:3. They have the thrasher watermark in the top right corner of their cropped 1:1 videos. What the fuck

[doublesteveburger]

gal left me, breaking our lease soon,
gonna turn her into art or whatever they say

[Frank]

fuck dude, keep your head up.

[Sila]

So I snapped back into neurotic thinking and existential panic this week. Thinking about death and how I should prepare for it, cutting down my belongings, what I should do with my journals, music I've made etc. I'm not suicidal although I have been in the past. But I go through phases where my mortality really slaps me in the face.

It's just a product of spending too much time alone, which I've chosen to do because my friends can be too negative and judgemental for my liking. I've really grown out of being around people like that and I exhaust myself trying to be level headed and positive. Really hope I can crawl out of this one soon. .

[Nollie FS 180]

So I snapped back into neurotic thinking and existential panic this week. Thinking about death and how I should prepare for it, cutting down my belongings, what I should do with my journals, music I've made etc. I'm not suicidal although I have been in the past. But I go through phases where my mortality really slaps me in the face.

It's just a product of spending too much time alone, which I've chosen to do because my friends can be too negative and judgemental for my liking. I've really grown out of being around people like that and I exhaust myself trying to be level headed and positive. Really hope I can crawl out of this one soon. .

I know how you feel, if I were you I’d just trying to make new friends or possibly just doing your own thing and recoup until your ready.

[Mark Renton]

Damn sorry to hear that DSB.
Similar thing happened to me two weeks ago.
Now she’s texting me saying she’s sorry and wants to get back together.
She moved out too.

The other flatmate left the house as well. He had two cats and now I have a flea infested house.
I had to throw away the sofa. My whole body is an itchy mess. I hope the landlord makes him pay for everything. I’m not paying a penny for his bullshit.

[os89]

Fake ass flaky fuckers.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

Fake ass flaky fuckers.

Try going it alone for a bit.  Its good for ones character

[os89]

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Fake ass flaky fuckers.

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Try going it alone for a bit.  Its good for ones character

Usually this person is not a flake, known em my whole life, but sure has been lately. Your right though I was just drunk, oh well I'll just let them reach out.

[behavioralguide]

lack of fulltechnicalskizzy posts

[Justis]

SO sick of this state, both my location and the negative mindset I have with this place.  Instant feeling of a funk when I'm back home , time to strand myself somewhere else again. 

[Nollie FS 180]

Myself. I want to be myself and not give a fuck anymore. I just want to be a nice guy instead of being grumpy 24/7. I just want to be comfortable and happy.

[garthblader]

Moved away from Maine and this girl I was seeing.  She is way into me and I had to move across the country for school and shes wicked depressed.  I feel awful because I really like her but I don't have the mental capacity right now with trying to figure out my life and school to be in a relationship.  Shit is awful and I feel terrible but I can't do anything to help.

[mynameisnotjeff]

Moved away from Maine and this girl I was seeing.  She is way into me and I had to move across the country for school and shes wicked depressed.  I feel awful because I really like her but I don't have the mental capacity right now with trying to figure out my life and school to be in a relationship.  Shit is awful and I feel terrible but I can't do anything to help.

It may seem selfish but focus on yourself first. Was in a similar situation and it sucks and you'll feel like shit but, be sincere and explain that you have to get yourself right first. Then you can help (or be with someone)

[garthblader]

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Moved away from Maine and this girl I was seeing.  She is way into me and I had to move across the country for school and shes wicked depressed.  I feel awful because I really like her but I don't have the mental capacity right now with trying to figure out my life and school to be in a relationship.  Shit is awful and I feel terrible but I can't do anything to help.

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It may seem selfish but focus on yourself first. Was in a similar situation and it sucks and you'll feel like shit but, be sincere and explain that you have to get yourself right first. Then you can help (or be with someone)

Thanks, thats what I have been trying to do but I am wicked sensitive towards other people's feelings in situations like this.  It'll work out but hurting friends always sucks.

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Moved away from Maine and this girl I was seeing.  She is way into me and I had to move across the country for school and shes wicked depressed.  I feel awful because I really like her but I don't have the mental capacity right now with trying to figure out my life and school to be in a relationship.  Shit is awful and I feel terrible but I can't do anything to help.

[close]

It may seem selfish but focus on yourself first. Was in a similar situation and it sucks and you'll feel like shit but, be sincere and explain that you have to get yourself right first. Then you can help (or be with someone)

[close]

Thanks, thats what I have been trying to do but I am wicked sensitive towards other people's feelings in situations like this.  It'll work out but hurting friends always sucks.

I'm the same way man but he's right. It's gonna help you a lot more to handle your stuff and be better prepared to be a better partner/whatever.

[HyenaChaser]

The UN says we have 18 months to do everything we can to prevent terminal climate change and nobody gives a shit.

[Noble Experiment]

Was out last night at a bar hanging with a bunch of people, including this one girl that I've been friends with for a while, she's cool and I enjoy her company. Me and a friend were reminiscing about old times and he brought up this one time like half a decade ago where me and this dude were having a roast battle and it was getting pretty intense, to the point where we were starting to just say shit that was clearly hitting below the belt, and then I called the dudes girl a fat whale, not even knowing who his girlfriend was, just knowing she was overweight because I've heard from others she was, and he got up and punched me in the face, almost breaking my nose. Obviously not one of my prouder moments, and I definitely aimed was way below the belt for that one, and it getting punched sucked at the time, but I still find the story pretty amusing now all these years later. So me and a few others bust out laughing and I said "hah! yeah I remember that; oh what a night that was". The girl was at the next table over and overhears the fat whale part and gave me the most dirty look and then kinda just gets up and goes outside. She's definitely someone who is a bit more sensitive to that kind of stuff, calling girls names and body shaming and what not, which there's nothing wrong with at all because it's a lame thing to do, but yeah she got pretty upset when she heard that, or at least I'm assuming so based on her look and her going outside. I didn't think nothing of it at first but as the night went on and I tried to talk to her she was pretty much just ignoring me or barely paying attention to what I was saying and giving me real brief one word answers n stuff. I don't know for sure if it's because of that but I'm pretty sure it was, what else could it have been? I want to talk to her and be like " hey, I know I was an ass for saying that, but this happened years ago and I was just trying to get under that guys skin," but I feel like it'd just be weird if I brought that up to her out of nowhere, especially now since its already the next day. I talked to another friend who said " meh I wouldn't worry too much about it. She'll probably forget eventually and everything will be cool again, and if not then oh well, but I wouldn't pay too much mind", which is good advice but I always over think these sort of situations, always. She's friends with a lot of the other girls in one of my friend groups too who are also like minded to her so I'm worried she might just tell all of them too which would probably get them bummed on me too. So yeah, not sure what to do. But I might just do what my friend says, just try not to worry too much and see what happens.

[50mm]

Didn’t get enough sleep last night. 2.5 hours into work and still have another 6.5 to go. At least my bosses last day was yesterday so everyone is chilling and not doing shit.

[HyenaChaser]

Was out last night at a bar hanging with a bunch of people, including this one girl that I've been friends with for a while, she's cool and I enjoy her company. Me and a friend were reminiscing about old times and he brought up this one time like half a decade ago where me and this dude were having a roast battle and it was getting pretty intense, to the point where we were starting to just say shit that was clearly hitting below the belt, and then I called the dudes girl a fat whale, not even knowing who his girlfriend was, just knowing she was overweight because I've heard from others she was, and he got up and punched me in the face, almost breaking my nose. Obviously not one of my prouder moments, and I definitely aimed was way below the belt for that one, and it getting punched sucked at the time, but I still find the story pretty amusing now all these years later. So me and a few others bust out laughing and I said "hah! yeah I remember that; oh what a night that was". The girl was at the next table over and overhears the fat whale part and gave me the most dirty look and then kinda just gets up and goes outside. She's definitely someone who is a bit more sensitive to that kind of stuff, calling girls names and body shaming and what not, which there's nothing wrong with at all because it's a lame thing to do, but yeah she got pretty upset when she heard that, or at least I'm assuming so based on her look and her going outside. I didn't think nothing of it at first but as the night went on and I tried to talk to her she was pretty much just ignoring me or barely paying attention to what I was saying and giving me real brief one word answers n stuff. I don't know for sure if it's because of that but I'm pretty sure it was, what else could it have been? I want to talk to her and be like " hey, I know I was an ass for saying that, but this happened years ago and I was just trying to get under that guys skin," but I feel like it'd just be weird if I brought that up to her out of nowhere, especially now since its already the next day. I talked to another friend who said " meh I wouldn't worry too much about it. She'll probably forget eventually and everything will be cool again, and if not then oh well, but I wouldn't pay too much mind", which is good advice but I always over think these sort of situations, always. She's friends with a lot of the other girls in one of my friend groups too who are also like minded to her so I'm worried she might just tell all of them too which would probably get them bummed on me too. So yeah, not sure what to do. But I might just do what my friend says, just try not to worry too much and see what happens.

I've said some pretty outlandish shit that was definitely skirting some lines, straight up insulting at times even though it was all in jest, I think it's best if you just go direct to that girl and explain your side of things. Maybe even apologize if you feel it's appropriate, especially if she could taint your reputation with other women in your friend group. In my experience when you just try to ride out the wave, shit might cool down but it leaves a scar and never really heals up. It will take some pride swallowing to just have a heart to heart but I think it's worth it in the end. Not trying to tell you what to do, I ain't your dad, just dropping some knowledge from my own experiences.

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Was out last night at a bar hanging with a bunch of people, including this one girl that I've been friends with for a while, she's cool and I enjoy her company. Me and a friend were reminiscing about old times and he brought up this one time like half a decade ago where me and this dude were having a roast battle and it was getting pretty intense, to the point where we were starting to just say shit that was clearly hitting below the belt, and then I called the dudes girl a fat whale, not even knowing who his girlfriend was, just knowing she was overweight because I've heard from others she was, and he got up and punched me in the face, almost breaking my nose. Obviously not one of my prouder moments, and I definitely aimed was way below the belt for that one, and it getting punched sucked at the time, but I still find the story pretty amusing now all these years later. So me and a few others bust out laughing and I said "hah! yeah I remember that; oh what a night that was". The girl was at the next table over and overhears the fat whale part and gave me the most dirty look and then kinda just gets up and goes outside. She's definitely someone who is a bit more sensitive to that kind of stuff, calling girls names and body shaming and what not, which there's nothing wrong with at all because it's a lame thing to do, but yeah she got pretty upset when she heard that, or at least I'm assuming so based on her look and her going outside. I didn't think nothing of it at first but as the night went on and I tried to talk to her she was pretty much just ignoring me or barely paying attention to what I was saying and giving me real brief one word answers n stuff. I don't know for sure if it's because of that but I'm pretty sure it was, what else could it have been? I want to talk to her and be like " hey, I know I was an ass for saying that, but this happened years ago and I was just trying to get under that guys skin," but I feel like it'd just be weird if I brought that up to her out of nowhere, especially now since its already the next day. I talked to another friend who said " meh I wouldn't worry too much about it. She'll probably forget eventually and everything will be cool again, and if not then oh well, but I wouldn't pay too much mind", which is good advice but I always over think these sort of situations, always. She's friends with a lot of the other girls in one of my friend groups too who are also like minded to her so I'm worried she might just tell all of them too which would probably get them bummed on me too. So yeah, not sure what to do. But I might just do what my friend says, just try not to worry too much and see what happens.

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I've said some pretty outlandish shit that was definitely skirting some lines, straight up insulting at times even though it was all in jest, I think it's best if you just go direct to that girl and explain your side of things. Maybe even apologize if you feel it's appropriate, especially if she could taint your reputation with other women in your friend group. In my experience when you just try to ride out the wave, shit might cool down but it leaves a scar and never really heals up. It will take some pride swallowing to just have a heart to heart but I think it's worth it in the end. Not trying to tell you what to do, I ain't your dad, just dropping some knowledge from my own experiences.

Like 10 years ago at my old job they were watching the Kardashian’s in the lunch room. I just went on a rant about how ugly and fat the ugly and fat one was. I’m like finishing my funny bit and the silence makes me realize our really really big coworker is in the room with us. I felt like and still feel like the biggest asshole ever for that. She was really cool and nice and I will never ever forgive myself for it. She must have felt like shit. Everyone at work made fun of me for being so dumb later on. Well deserved.

[winecrab]

Was out last night at a bar hanging with a bunch of people, including this one girl that I've been friends with for a while, she's cool and I enjoy her company. Me and a friend were reminiscing about old times and he brought up this one time like half a decade ago where me and this dude were having a roast battle and it was getting pretty intense, to the point where we were starting to just say shit that was clearly hitting below the belt, and then I called the dudes girl a fat whale, not even knowing who his girlfriend was, just knowing she was overweight because I've heard from others she was, and he got up and punched me in the face, almost breaking my nose. Obviously not one of my prouder moments, and I definitely aimed was way below the belt for that one, and it getting punched sucked at the time, but I still find the story pretty amusing now all these years later. So me and a few others bust out laughing and I said "hah! yeah I remember that; oh what a night that was". The girl was at the next table over and overhears the fat whale part and gave me the most dirty look and then kinda just gets up and goes outside. She's definitely someone who is a bit more sensitive to that kind of stuff, calling girls names and body shaming and what not, which there's nothing wrong with at all because it's a lame thing to do, but yeah she got pretty upset when she heard that, or at least I'm assuming so based on her look and her going outside. I didn't think nothing of it at first but as the night went on and I tried to talk to her she was pretty much just ignoring me or barely paying attention to what I was saying and giving me real brief one word answers n stuff. I don't know for sure if it's because of that but I'm pretty sure it was, what else could it have been? I want to talk to her and be like " hey, I know I was an ass for saying that, but this happened years ago and I was just trying to get under that guys skin," but I feel like it'd just be weird if I brought that up to her out of nowhere, especially now since its already the next day. I talked to another friend who said " meh I wouldn't worry too much about it. She'll probably forget eventually and everything will be cool again, and if not then oh well, but I wouldn't pay too much mind", which is good advice but I always over think these sort of situations, always. She's friends with a lot of the other girls in one of my friend groups too who are also like minded to her so I'm worried she might just tell all of them too which would probably get them bummed on me too. So yeah, not sure what to do. But I might just do what my friend says, just try not to worry too much and see what happens.

Why didn't you just ask her what was wrong when you went outside? If she's still acting like that next time you talk to her just bring it up and explain your side. I get that she's sensitive to bullying and shit but it's pretty lame to get pissed at someone for something they said 5 years ago.

[AssFea]

Found out I have a friend works for the opposition lawyer and I learned

I lost temporary guardianship of the kid because of telling stories on slap. The kid got sent Back and she’s devastated. I still have visits but I won’t have her for school.

She said to me.
Mom is still drinking. Why did she win? She bought me with a Lawyer. How can someone buy someone else? Why did this happen.

Nothing I’ve said on slap isn’t in my record. I should not have shown my face.

[Nollie FS 180]

Found out I have a friend works for the opposition lawyer and I learned

I lost temporary guardianship of the kid because of telling stories on slap. The kid got sent Back and she’s devastated. I still have visits but I won’t have her for school.

She said to me.
Mom is still drinking. Why did she win? She bought me with a Lawyer. How can someone buy someone else? Why did this happen.

Nothing I’ve said on slap isn’t in my record. I should not have shown my face.

damn man that sucks. I hope you get your daughter back.

[winecrab]

Found out I have a friend works for the opposition lawyer and I learned

I lost temporary guardianship of the kid because of telling stories on slap. The kid got sent Back and she’s devastated. I still have visits but I won’t have her for school.

She said to me.
Mom is still drinking. Why did she win? She bought me with a Lawyer. How can someone buy someone else? Why did this happen.

Nothing I’ve said on slap isn’t in my record. I should not have shown my face.

I don't know the story behind this but that's fucking horrible man. How did they know you post on slap? I'm about to focus my shit out of paranoia. I hope you get more time with your kid in the future.

[Nollie FS 180]

It’s been pretty lonely lately. I don’t know what to do. I don’t have anyone to talk to about personal stuff. Does anyone have an idea to get out of this funk?

[WastedHippy]

It’s been pretty lonely lately. I don’t know what to do. I don’t have anyone to talk to about personal stuff. Does anyone have an idea to get out of this funk?

No close friends or siblings or anything like that?