Seriously, to everybody who has given me solid advice about my ex-GF trouble, thank you.
On a serious and good note, I'm happier. I'm starting to forget about her and it also helps that I can do whatever the fuck I want right now. I get to skate more, save MORE money since I have nobody to spend it on but myself, and I recently got inspired to lose some weight.
Now the only thing that's catching my attention is this one girl. My homegirl recently told me that she has single friends and I asked her if one of her friends who goes by the name of Samantha was one of those single girls, and to my surprise she is. So my friend likes to play Cupid and she told Samantha that I thought she was a cutie and Samantha allowed my friend to give me her number. To which I texted her and formally introduced myself. We chit-chatted for a while through texting, I like that she doesn't text one word texts, Im guessing that's a good thing. She's actually making conversation which I really like.
So move on the next day, I go to my university to pay off some tuition (which left me broke but oh well that's another case) and I was texting her and turns out she goes to the same university as me and she worked there as well. I lucked out and she was getting off work at 5 (I finished all my errands around 4:40) and I asked her if she wanted to meet up and hang for a bit (I had things to do later on) and she was up for it.
So we talked and talked, and I seriously did not expect this so quick but I'm actually digging this girl so far. She's real cool, conversational, and it doesn't hurt that she's a looker and has a big butt lol. So after the little hang out, I walked her to her car and we parted ways. 10 minutes later, my homegirl texted me saying that Samantha called her and told her that she thought I was interesting, tall, and cute. She also liked that I liked to talk so that was also a good sign. So here I am stoked, loving this new year so far.
So now here comes my new entry for real confessions:
I've been out of the dating game for a long time after coming off a long term relationship.
I don't really know how to approach this new girl, to the point that I won't come off as too eager but I also wanna stand out in her head. So if any of you have tips and ideas to how to approach and ask this out on dates or whatever, please feel free!
Yeah it's a bit lame that I don't even know how to do this anymore, but being in a relationship for so long where you got comfortable and used it to it, you tend to forget. (or at least I do).
Help a brother out!