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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4350 on: January 14, 2014, 11:39:47 PM »
I'm at that point in life where you're friends are doing something else and it's up to you to keep skating. I never want to stop skating cause it's the only thing I'm good at and I enjoy. I'm having serious motivational issues to pick up the board and go at it myself. I feel like the spark isn't the same anymore, and I wanna keep going but It hasn't been easy for me, plus, my park is horrible it has the worst vibes to it, theres just random sketchy people smoking weed there all day.
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I'm not trying to talk shit or anything, but dude, that's most parks. 

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« Reply #4351 on: January 15, 2014, 09:22:24 AM »
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I'm at that point in life where you're friends are doing something else and it's up to you to keep skating. I never want to stop skating cause it's the only thing I'm good at and I enjoy. I'm having serious motivational issues to pick up the board and go at it myself. I feel like the spark isn't the same anymore, and I wanna keep going but It hasn't been easy for me, plus, my park is horrible it has the worst vibes to it, theres just random sketchy people smoking weed there all day.
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I'm not trying to talk shit or anything, but dude, that's most parks. 

i kind of make it my mission to go to different parks and be that dude
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« Reply #4352 on: January 15, 2014, 05:39:19 PM »
Seriously, to everybody who has given me solid advice about my ex-GF trouble, thank you.

On a serious and good note, I'm happier. I'm starting to forget about her and it also helps that I can do whatever the fuck I want right now. I get to skate more, save MORE money since I have nobody to spend it on but myself, and I recently got inspired to lose some weight.

Now the only thing that's catching my attention is this one girl. My homegirl recently told me that she has single friends and I asked her if one of her friends who goes by the name of Samantha was one of those single girls, and to my surprise she is. So my friend likes to play Cupid and she told Samantha that I thought she was a cutie and Samantha allowed my friend to give me her number. To which I texted her and formally introduced myself. We chit-chatted for a while through texting, I like that she doesn't text one word texts, Im guessing that's a good thing. She's actually making conversation which I really like.
So move on the next day, I go to my university to pay off some tuition (which left me broke but oh well that's another case) and I was texting her and turns out she goes to the same university as me and she worked there as well. I lucked out and she was getting off work at 5 (I finished all my errands around 4:40) and I asked her if she wanted to meet up and hang for a bit (I had things to do later on) and she was up for it.
So we talked and talked, and I seriously did not expect this so quick but I'm actually digging this girl so far. She's real cool, conversational, and it doesn't hurt that she's a looker and has a big butt lol. So after the little hang out, I walked her to her car and we parted ways. 10 minutes later, my homegirl texted me saying that Samantha called her and told her that she thought I was interesting, tall, and cute. She also liked that I liked to talk so that was also a good sign. So here I am stoked, loving this new year so far.

So now here comes my new entry for real confessions:
I've been out of the dating game for a long time after coming off a long term relationship.
I don't really know how to approach this new girl, to the point that I won't come off as too eager but I also wanna stand out in her head. So if any of you have tips and ideas to how to approach and ask this out on dates or whatever, please feel free!
Yeah it's a bit lame that I don't even know how to do this anymore, but being in a relationship for so long where you got comfortable and used it to it, you tend to forget. (or at least I do).
Help a brother out!

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4353 on: January 15, 2014, 05:51:56 PM »


So now here comes my new entry for real confessions:
I've been out of the dating game for a long time after coming off a long term relationship.
I don't really know how to approach this new girl, to the point that I won't come off as too eager but I also wanna stand out in her head. So if any of you have tips and ideas to how to approach and ask this out on dates or whatever, please feel free!
Yeah it's a bit lame that I don't even know how to do this anymore, but being in a relationship for so long where you got comfortable and used it to it, you tend to forget. (or at least I do).
Help a brother out!



holy hell, why are you in the exactly situation im in? im at the same point with a new chick, and im fucked as what to do next. When the situation arises im sure you'll just go with the flow, thats the best and most honest way to go about it.

But like you, I also do not want to fuck this up.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4354 on: January 16, 2014, 08:11:51 PM »
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I'm at that point in life where you're friends are doing something else and it's up to you to keep skating. I never want to stop skating cause it's the only thing I'm good at and I enjoy. I'm having serious motivational issues to pick up the board and go at it myself. I feel like the spark isn't the same anymore, and I wanna keep going but It hasn't been easy for me, plus, my park is horrible it has the worst vibes to it, theres just random sketchy people smoking weed there all day.
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I'm not trying to talk shit or anything, but dude, that's most parks. 

Yeah but it kinda gets out of hand when the park is located in the middle of three different hoods. The vibe is certainly not the smoke weed and skate all day type of thing. I just gotta stop being a bitch about it and just skate, I guess.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4355 on: January 17, 2014, 11:53:26 AM »
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So now here comes my new entry for real confessions:
I've been out of the dating game for a long time after coming off a long term relationship.
I don't really know how to approach this new girl, to the point that I won't come off as too eager but I also wanna stand out in her head. So if any of you have tips and ideas to how to approach and ask this out on dates or whatever, please feel free!
Yeah it's a bit lame that I don't even know how to do this anymore, but being in a relationship for so long where you got comfortable and used it to it, you tend to forget. (or at least I do).
Help a brother out!

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holy hell, why are you in the exactly situation im in? im at the same point with a new chick, and im fucked as what to do next. When the situation arises im sure you'll just go with the flow, thats the best and most honest way to go about it.

But like you, I also do not want to fuck this up.


if you want to make a good impression on a date, take her someplace shes never been. you might have to think about it for a while, but think of a place thats different that a place her and her friends would hang out at, or a place that some other guy might have already taken her. it can be a cool bar or restaurant, or someplace kinda unique. basically just avoid places like the olive garden and the movie theater, or the clubs that the top 40 radio stations promote. you dont need to go all out and try to be fancy and impress her that way, just take her some place cool in your area that you know a lot of people dont really know about. escapist, it sounds like youve been making the right moves so far. just get creative. it doesnt even have to be a place where you spend money. my first girlfriend i took to this park and back about a half mile in the woods was the remains of henry fords vacation home. theres a guest house thats still standing, and his main house that burned down, but the foundation is still there, along with a big stone fireplace. people have planted flowers and stuff inside where the house used to be and its pretty cool to go check out. then farther back in the woods he had these huge swimming pools with stadium seating and this like mini power plant thing that powered the place. so we walked around there for a while and explored, then i got us lost on the trails, it downpoured, and we got eaten alive by mosquitos, and she ended up ruining her suede converses. i thought i fucked up big time, but she really enjoyed herself probably just because it wasnt something she had done before on a date. obviously not all girls would take that situation well, but you get the point. you just need to show her youre an interesting guy who does interesting and exciting shit.

edit: i guess i read your question wrong. you were asking for advice on how to ask her on a date. just ask her. say "hey, are you free this day? yeah? well do you want to go do this with me?" if shes into you, she will say yes. if she makes up a bullshit excuse or takes too long to reply, forget about her. escapist, it should like youre doing well with this chick, just ask her out. if shes hanging out with you and rushing to tell her friend about it, then im sure youre good.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4356 on: January 17, 2014, 06:30:57 PM »
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So now here comes my new entry for real confessions:
I've been out of the dating game for a long time after coming off a long term relationship.
I don't really know how to approach this new girl, to the point that I won't come off as too eager but I also wanna stand out in her head. So if any of you have tips and ideas to how to approach and ask this out on dates or whatever, please feel free!
Yeah it's a bit lame that I don't even know how to do this anymore, but being in a relationship for so long where you got comfortable and used it to it, you tend to forget. (or at least I do).
Help a brother out!

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holy hell, why are you in the exactly situation im in? im at the same point with a new chick, and im fucked as what to do next. When the situation arises im sure you'll just go with the flow, thats the best and most honest way to go about it.

But like you, I also do not want to fuck this up.
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if you want to make a good impression on a date, take her someplace shes never been. you might have to think about it for a while, but think of a place thats different that a place her and her friends would hang out at, or a place that some other guy might have already taken her. it can be a cool bar or restaurant, or someplace kinda unique. basically just avoid places like the olive garden and the movie theater, or the clubs that the top 40 radio stations promote. you dont need to go all out and try to be fancy and impress her that way, just take her some place cool in your area that you know a lot of people dont really know about. escapist, it sounds like youve been making the right moves so far. just get creative. it doesnt even have to be a place where you spend money. my first girlfriend i took to this park and back about a half mile in the woods was the remains of henry fords vacation home. theres a guest house thats still standing, and his main house that burned down, but the foundation is still there, along with a big stone fireplace. people have planted flowers and stuff inside where the house used to be and its pretty cool to go check out. then farther back in the woods he had these huge swimming pools with stadium seating and this like mini power plant thing that powered the place. so we walked around there for a while and explored, then i got us lost on the trails, it downpoured, and we got eaten alive by mosquitos, and she ended up ruining her suede converses. i thought i fucked up big time, but she really enjoyed herself probably just because it wasnt something she had done before on a date. obviously not all girls would take that situation well, but you get the point. you just need to show her youre an interesting guy who does interesting and exciting shit.

edit: i guess i read your question wrong. you were asking for advice on how to ask her on a date. just ask her. say "hey, are you free this day? yeah? well do you want to go do this with me?" if shes into you, she will say yes. if she makes up a bullshit excuse or takes too long to reply, forget about her. escapist, it should like youre doing well with this chick, just ask her out. if shes hanging out with you and rushing to tell her friend about it, then im sure youre good.

Damn dude. Hell yeah! I really appreciate everything you said. I will definitely keep that in mind.
I asked her out on a date and she said yes. We're gonna go get shaved ice. (shaved ice and ice cream combined. its actually really good). And then for the next one, I'm thinking about taking her to the Los Angeles County Museum of Arts. It's this place
All those things you told me just pretty much inspired me to not be a generic typical guy, I am an interesting guy and I shouldnt be afraid to show her what I got.

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« Reply #4357 on: January 18, 2014, 07:07:00 AM »
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So now here comes my new entry for real confessions:
I've been out of the dating game for a long time after coming off a long term relationship.
I don't really know how to approach this new girl, to the point that I won't come off as too eager but I also wanna stand out in her head. So if any of you have tips and ideas to how to approach and ask this out on dates or whatever, please feel free!
Yeah it's a bit lame that I don't even know how to do this anymore, but being in a relationship for so long where you got comfortable and used it to it, you tend to forget. (or at least I do).
Help a brother out!

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holy hell, why are you in the exactly situation im in? im at the same point with a new chick, and im fucked as what to do next. When the situation arises im sure you'll just go with the flow, thats the best and most honest way to go about it.

But like you, I also do not want to fuck this up.
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if you want to make a good impression on a date, take her someplace shes never been. you might have to think about it for a while, but think of a place thats different that a place her and her friends would hang out at, or a place that some other guy might have already taken her. it can be a cool bar or restaurant, or someplace kinda unique. basically just avoid places like the olive garden and the movie theater, or the clubs that the top 40 radio stations promote. you dont need to go all out and try to be fancy and impress her that way, just take her some place cool in your area that you know a lot of people dont really know about. escapist, it sounds like youve been making the right moves so far. just get creative. it doesnt even have to be a place where you spend money. my first girlfriend i took to this park and back about a half mile in the woods was the remains of henry fords vacation home. theres a guest house thats still standing, and his main house that burned down, but the foundation is still there, along with a big stone fireplace. people have planted flowers and stuff inside where the house used to be and its pretty cool to go check out. then farther back in the woods he had these huge swimming pools with stadium seating and this like mini power plant thing that powered the place. so we walked around there for a while and explored, then i got us lost on the trails, it downpoured, and we got eaten alive by mosquitos, and she ended up ruining her suede converses. i thought i fucked up big time, but she really enjoyed herself probably just because it wasnt something she had done before on a date. obviously not all girls would take that situation well, but you get the point. you just need to show her youre an interesting guy who does interesting and exciting shit.

edit: i guess i read your question wrong. you were asking for advice on how to ask her on a date. just ask her. say "hey, are you free this day? yeah? well do you want to go do this with me?" if shes into you, she will say yes. if she makes up a bullshit excuse or takes too long to reply, forget about her. escapist, it should like youre doing well with this chick, just ask her out. if shes hanging out with you and rushing to tell her friend about it, then im sure youre good.
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Damn dude. Hell yeah! I really appreciate everything you said. I will definitely keep that in mind.
I asked her out on a date and she said yes. We're gonna go get shaved ice. (shaved ice and ice cream combined. its actually really good). And then for the next one, I'm thinking about taking her to the Los Angeles County Museum of Arts. It's this place
All those things you told me just pretty much inspired me to not be a generic typical guy, I am an interesting guy and I shouldnt be afraid to show her what I got.

keep unsolicited dick pic's on the backburner for now though

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4358 on: January 22, 2014, 11:17:59 PM »
So, i've been realizing in the last couple months i just don't really give a shit about anything.

All last semester i just smoked weed and barely passed a few of my classes, failing one. Im an engineering student and the classes are fucking hard. I'm a senior now so i don't have much left to go. But i also just want to do good in school because i feel obligated to. I'm a nice guy i think, i never get mad at my friends or get into any fights whatsoever. But im always the dude to dip from the bar or anywhere earlier then the rest of the group, just cuz im bored or don't care about whats going on.

Also, i feel like i go for chicks that are too hot for me and i won't be satisfied to have a legit girlfriend unless she's a straight dime (in my eyes). I ignore the signs that a girl isn't good for me, like chicks that text one word answers that probably have no brain and i wouldn't be interested in anyway.

I love skating obviously, and i do have some days where im hyped and in a good mood. But most of my days are just trying to speed the day up to get to the next. I skate a ton, but its really all i enjoy doing. I've been feeling very disconnected socially these last few months, and i guess it just get spilled out in increments on SLAP.

I've been justifying all of my unhappiness with the fact that i'm so close to getting my degree, that once i do, i'll move immediately to california or colorado to start my life completely over. I don't know if that will really make me happy, but i feel like Indiana (where i live) is just dragging me down.

I need SLAP advice. Even stupid shit, it might make me crack a smile.

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« Reply #4359 on: January 23, 2014, 08:10:31 AM »
I spent the past 5 years wondering if I was unhappy because of where I lived, or if it was me that had issues I needed to work on.  Then recently I visited another city, loved every minute of it, and realized it's definitely where I live that's bringing me down.  If you think you'd be happier leaving Indiana for somewhere else, you probably will be.

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« Reply #4360 on: January 23, 2014, 09:29:01 AM »
So, i've been realizing in the last couple months i just don't really give a shit about anything.

All last semester i just smoked weed and barely passed a few of my classes, failing one. Im an engineering student and the classes are fucking hard. I'm a senior now so i don't have much left to go. But i also just want to do good in school because i feel obligated to. I'm a nice guy i think, i never get mad at my friends or get into any fights whatsoever. But im always the dude to dip from the bar or anywhere earlier then the rest of the group, just cuz im bored or don't care about whats going on.

Also, i feel like i go for chicks that are too hot for me and i won't be satisfied to have a legit girlfriend unless she's a straight dime (in my eyes). I ignore the signs that a girl isn't good for me, like chicks that text one word answers that probably have no brain and i wouldn't be interested in anyway.

I love skating obviously, and i do have some days where im hyped and in a good mood. But most of my days are just trying to speed the day up to get to the next. I skate a ton, but its really all i enjoy doing. I've been feeling very disconnected socially these last few months, and i guess it just get spilled out in increments on SLAP.

I've been justifying all of my unhappiness with the fact that i'm so close to getting my degree, that once i do, i'll move immediately to california or colorado to start my life completely over. I don't know if that will really make me happy, but i feel like Indiana (where i live) is just dragging me down.

I need SLAP advice. Even stupid shit, it might make me crack a smile.

You have no real problems.

-finish your shit, then smoke

-find a pretty girl that you click with and nail it down.

-If you are not somewhat happy with your current situation (youth, freedom), then your future might suck. you need to be content with the present as well as taking steps to secure a happy and prosperous future. juggle that shit.

-typical young person Midwest attitude. Hating where you are, and thinking big cities are superior. While big cities are epicenters for culture, a small city can offer some refreshing aspects, which are completely up to you to decide what those aspects are. By all means move if you get a job, but keep in mind that happiness is not necessarily waiting for you in Colorado or California. Transferring your life can be as shitty as staying put.

Sounds like you have some good things going on, so sit back and enjoy your time to shine and get your shit done.  Good luck

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4361 on: January 23, 2014, 10:08:22 AM »
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So, i've been realizing in the last couple months i just don't really give a shit about anything.

All last semester i just smoked weed and barely passed a few of my classes, failing one. Im an engineering student and the classes are fucking hard. I'm a senior now so i don't have much left to go. But i also just want to do good in school because i feel obligated to. I'm a nice guy i think, i never get mad at my friends or get into any fights whatsoever. But im always the dude to dip from the bar or anywhere earlier then the rest of the group, just cuz im bored or don't care about whats going on.

Also, i feel like i go for chicks that are too hot for me and i won't be satisfied to have a legit girlfriend unless she's a straight dime (in my eyes). I ignore the signs that a girl isn't good for me, like chicks that text one word answers that probably have no brain and i wouldn't be interested in anyway.

I love skating obviously, and i do have some days where im hyped and in a good mood. But most of my days are just trying to speed the day up to get to the next. I skate a ton, but its really all i enjoy doing. I've been feeling very disconnected socially these last few months, and i guess it just get spilled out in increments on SLAP.

I've been justifying all of my unhappiness with the fact that i'm so close to getting my degree, that once i do, i'll move immediately to california or colorado to start my life completely over. I don't know if that will really make me happy, but i feel like Indiana (where i live) is just dragging me down.

I need SLAP advice. Even stupid shit, it might make me crack a smile.
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You have no real problems.

-finish your shit, then smoke

-find a pretty girl that you click with and nail it down.

-If you are not somewhat happy with your current situation (youth, freedom), then your future might suck. you need to be content with the present as well as taking steps to secure a happy and prosperous future. juggle that shit.

-typical young person Midwest attitude. Hating where you are, and thinking big cities are superior. While big cities are epicenters for culture, a small city can offer some refreshing aspects, which are completely up to you to decide what those aspects are. By all means move if you get a job, but keep in mind that happiness is not necessarily waiting for you in Colorado or California. Transferring your life can be as shitty as staying put.

Sounds like you have some good things going on, so sit back and enjoy your time to shine and get your shit done.  Good luck

i never understood the midwest hate, i fucking loved every minute i lived in cincinnati but all anyone talked about was "WHEN I GRADUATE IM GOIN TO CALI TO SMOKE MAD WEED BRA."  Like wtf, living in the midwest is not a prison sentence, its the god damn best thing in the world!
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4362 on: January 23, 2014, 11:59:40 AM »
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So, i've been realizing in the last couple months i just don't really give a shit about anything.

All last semester i just smoked weed and barely passed a few of my classes, failing one. Im an engineering student and the classes are fucking hard. I'm a senior now so i don't have much left to go. But i also just want to do good in school because i feel obligated to. I'm a nice guy i think, i never get mad at my friends or get into any fights whatsoever. But im always the dude to dip from the bar or anywhere earlier then the rest of the group, just cuz im bored or don't care about whats going on.

Also, i feel like i go for chicks that are too hot for me and i won't be satisfied to have a legit girlfriend unless she's a straight dime (in my eyes). I ignore the signs that a girl isn't good for me, like chicks that text one word answers that probably have no brain and i wouldn't be interested in anyway.

I love skating obviously, and i do have some days where im hyped and in a good mood. But most of my days are just trying to speed the day up to get to the next. I skate a ton, but its really all i enjoy doing. I've been feeling very disconnected socially these last few months, and i guess it just get spilled out in increments on SLAP.

I've been justifying all of my unhappiness with the fact that i'm so close to getting my degree, that once i do, i'll move immediately to california or colorado to start my life completely over. I don't know if that will really make me happy, but i feel like Indiana (where i live) is just dragging me down.

I need SLAP advice. Even stupid shit, it might make me crack a smile.
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You have no real problems.

-finish your shit, then smoke

-find a pretty girl that you click with and nail it down.

-If you are not somewhat happy with your current situation (youth, freedom), then your future might suck. you need to be content with the present as well as taking steps to secure a happy and prosperous future. juggle that shit.

-typical young person Midwest attitude. Hating where you are, and thinking big cities are superior. While big cities are epicenters for culture, a small city can offer some refreshing aspects, which are completely up to you to decide what those aspects are. By all means move if you get a job, but keep in mind that happiness is not necessarily waiting for you in Colorado or California. Transferring your life can be as shitty as staying put.

Sounds like you have some good things going on, so sit back and enjoy your time to shine and get your shit done.  Good luck

Your right, and thanks for the motivation. I don't have and REAL problems in life, besides some psychological things i won't get into.

I don't want to come off like i want to move to California or Colorado to sMoKeMadWeEd, i don't really give a shit about that. Weed is anywhere. Between the places i've gotten to travel, California and Colorado seem like the places i would rather be. I don't necessarily want to live in some big city, it's just the midwest where i live is all strip malls, no culture, and the people don't really embrace substance. It's very shallow. I like to go hiking, spend time in nature, and get into some deep conversations, but it seems almost impossible around here. Most of the people i know or went to highschool with (class of 800) all have the same mentality, very negative.

I live about 30 miles  to Chicago, so i get the best of both worlds with city life and rural life. But the scene isn't like Cinci is, as pencil said, I've been there and the people and scene are amazing. I live next to the (once?) murder capital of the U.S, Gary, Indiana. I honestly think that this area has a huge effect on people's mental well-being.

Also, i virtually have no relationship with my parents besides living with them. It's very awkward and i probably haven't had a full conversation with them in years. That's probably why i want to get the fuck out so bad.

So TL;DR, Thanks Paraquat, it may seem stupid, but the way you broke it down into like 4 essential things really helps. I just need to spend time with the friends that actually care about me, find a pretty chick, and get this fucking engineering degree. Being happy in the present is hard for me, but i realize that if i continue the way i think that i will always be looking for something more.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4363 on: January 23, 2014, 02:38:33 PM »
I'm infatuated with a girl from the interwebs. I'm not stalking her or anything, she just posts on a website that I frequent. She's all types of gorgeous, she conducts herself well on the web, and she has a beautiful dog that I want for myself. I don't really know her, but everything I've seen about her is awesome. I have no idea where she's from. It makes me angry that I'm so attracted to her. I've only ever been attracted to a grand total of four women and I haven't even directly talked to the bitch. Anyhow, here's some photos.



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Re: real confessions
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4366 on: January 23, 2014, 04:03:52 PM »
So, i've been realizing in the last couple months i just don't really give a shit about anything.

All last semester i just smoked weed and barely passed a few of my classes, failing one. Im an engineering student and the classes are fucking hard. I'm a senior now so i don't have much left to go. But i also just want to do good in school because i feel obligated to. I'm a nice guy i think, i never get mad at my friends or get into any fights whatsoever. But im always the dude to dip from the bar or anywhere earlier then the rest of the group, just cuz im bored or don't care about whats going on.

Also, i feel like i go for chicks that are too hot for me and i won't be satisfied to have a legit girlfriend unless she's a straight dime (in my eyes). I ignore the signs that a girl isn't good for me, like chicks that text one word answers that probably have no brain and i wouldn't be interested in anyway.

I love skating obviously, and i do have some days where im hyped and in a good mood. But most of my days are just trying to speed the day up to get to the next. I skate a ton, but its really all i enjoy doing. I've been feeling very disconnected socially these last few months, and i guess it just get spilled out in increments on SLAP.

I've been justifying all of my unhappiness with the fact that i'm so close to getting my degree, that once i do, i'll move immediately to california or colorado to start my life completely over. I don't know if that will really make me happy, but i feel like Indiana (where i live) is just dragging me down.

I need SLAP advice. Even stupid shit, it might make me crack a smile.

Me and you sound like we're in the same state.  I blew it this past semester at school, have wrecked myself over a girl, and have had no motivation to do anything other than sleep and listen to music alone in my room.  Paraquat has it covered advice wise, so i'll just say that there are people feeling equally weird and fucked up.  

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4367 on: January 23, 2014, 04:30:37 PM »
If you don't think that girl is pretty then you are an idiot and I want you to die.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4368 on: January 24, 2014, 10:23:33 AM »
She's not ugly! However you need to chill out.

I had sex with this girl last night and she has been calling me all morning. I feel like an asshole for ignoring her. I guess I am an asshole with girls. If I really like a girl then I will still want to hang out with her after sex, I'm way shallow it sucks.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4369 on: January 24, 2014, 11:47:19 AM »
If you don't think that girl is pretty then you are an idiot and I want you to die.

she's super cute man. there's a special place in my heart for short-haired women.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4370 on: January 24, 2014, 12:40:56 PM »
She's not ugly! However you need to chill out.

I had sex with this girl last night and she has been calling me all morning. I feel like an asshole for ignoring her. I guess I am an asshole with girls. If I really like a girl then I will still want to hang out with her after sex, I'm way shallow it sucks.

It's not possible for me to chill out any more than I already am. My resting heart rate is 45bpm. If I relax any more, I'm going to die. All I want is for everyone that disagrees with me to die a horrible death. Is that really that bad?
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4371 on: January 24, 2014, 12:49:00 PM »
I still have no idea if Rusty Bearings is a fake account or not.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4372 on: January 24, 2014, 01:06:24 PM »
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She's not ugly! However you need to chill out.

I had sex with this girl last night and she has been calling me all morning. I feel like an asshole for ignoring her. I guess I am an asshole with girls. If I really like a girl then I will still want to hang out with her after sex, I'm way shallow it sucks.
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It's not possible for me to chill out any more than I already am. My resting heart rate is 45bpm. If I relax any more, I'm going to die. All I want is for everyone that disagrees with me to die a horrible death. Is that really that bad?

Haha no Jamal it's fine. I will hunt down that chick and bring her to you

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4373 on: January 25, 2014, 08:43:11 AM »
Mad dudes here with girl problems this should help

edit: leetgeek being all about another girl will make you more and aloof and therefore attractive to other girls, watch the peripheries dawg, some girl who you ignore everyday might be thinkin thoughts. Alot of girls don't really like when you're all about them, you possibly have a better chance with girls your legit not that into as weird as it sounds, especially if like me your an over-thinker
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4374 on: January 25, 2014, 10:22:03 PM »
Nigga, I don't know any girls. This is just a bitch I'm stalking on the cybernet. Besides, being aloof is the natural state of the introverted.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4375 on: January 26, 2014, 09:40:28 PM »
She's not ugly! However you need to chill out.

I had sex with this girl last night and she has been calling me all morning. I feel like an asshole for ignoring her. I guess I am an asshole with girls. If I really like a girl then I will still want to hang out with her after sex, I'm way shallow it sucks.

Cool story bro
I can ollie 6 decks why would I want to scrape the ground with my tricks

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4376 on: January 27, 2014, 10:10:01 AM »
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She's not ugly! However you need to chill out.

I had sex with this girl last night and she has been calling me all morning. I feel like an asshole for ignoring her. I guess I am an asshole with girls. If I really like a girl then I will still want to hang out with her after sex, I'm way shallow it sucks.
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Cool story bro

Thanks!


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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4377 on: January 27, 2014, 01:36:02 PM »
being aloof is the natural state of the introverted.


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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4378 on: January 27, 2014, 02:56:44 PM »
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She's not ugly! However you need to chill out.

I had sex with this girl last night and she has been calling me all morning. I feel like an asshole for ignoring her. I guess I am an asshole with girls. If I really like a girl then I will still want to hang out with her after sex, I'm way shallow it sucks.
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Cool story bro
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Thanks!



Reminded me of twitter and the people that go in there to complain about their ways.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4379 on: January 27, 2014, 03:15:00 PM »
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being aloof is the natural state of the introverted.
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I don't get this. Everybody already knows I'm a virgin. Where's the funny supposed to come from? Explain.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?