I feel like "open relationships" even when started with the best of intentions always get weird, especially if you're married. When I was in college me, my girl at the time and one of her friends had a three way and we were broken up probably a month afterwards. My girlfriend was the one pushing for it to happen and I was whatever about it so I just went with it and she ended up being the one who couldn't handle it afterward. Talking about shit is one thing but doing it is a completely different story, hope shit works out for ya'll bro.
Yeah that's weird how that happens?
One of my ex's was like oh I am bisexual and I was like ok... kept it cool on the outside on the inside I was like yeah son now I have that rare unicorn!!!!
So we're girl shopping at local punk shows and at Victoria Secret's various other shops where someone might be into it she's doing all the talking btw and macking on chicks sussing them out whatnot.
I had a friend who came into town whom I hadn't seen for a while and was living in SF for a bit I pick her up from the ATL airport.
It's just me and her mind you and she's asking me what's up with you and so and so..... I use to fool around with my friend but it was a platonic we've never considered being together as we were going in different directions in life me being into punk/metal she's was/is into raving/hippie culture goal oriented me I just like working and skating.
Well I just hint at what has been going down in regards of sexual frustration and asking her opinions of you think I should go through with this? Or should I say something or try to bring in another gal?
Longstory short she said to me the reason she's doing this is for her own interests so she can find a connection with the lady hence why she's doing the talking when girl shopping. (I had no clue) as most threesomes I've had were just like oh you want to hook up and you too? cool let's do this and that's that.
So as I tell my current gf at the time hey my friends in town hope you don't mind she sleeps on the couch? She says it's cool in a passive way.
So one day as I'm coming home from a telemarketing job I hear giggling and noises and screaming, I walk in my friend and gf are going down on each other. I say alright so this is happening and get naked the action was heated and awesome but as soon as I complete and watching them they're going at it like rabbits and you know how there's fucking and making love as way of showing passion and feelings this was going on, I admit with certain reluctant feeling I got jealous but they reached at me and we went for round two.
Fast forward after the events I am stoked but there's tension between the two ladies like unspoken sniping at each other and my gf is getting pissed at me for relatively nothing. Here I am young and naive I said something stupid y'all were banging like rabbits 3 days ago now you guy's are ready to swing at each other?
Needless to say I had to get a motel with my friend that night, I asked my lady friend wtf?! did I say something wrong? she went into a long sordid history of how women can switch like a lightbulb and even when they have sex. which led me to believe you can have hate sex with someone you despise but that's a different story.
It just boggles my mind when ladies are like that, if I was gay I'd hope the same respect of ok lets get down and not call each other afterwards and that'd be that. Sadly ladies are a whole other landmine of hoops and bullshit one has to deal with when adding another lady in the mix too much to deal with.