real confessions

[GAY]

deleted my fb profile because i guess i'm a misanthrope. some of my "friends" are seriously pissed about it... they can go fuck themselves.

I fully back your use of the word misanthrope.

[nylin]

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deleted my fb profile because i guess i'm a misanthrope. some of my "friends" are seriously pissed about it... they can go fuck themselves.

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Seriously thinking about doing it, or just removing 80% of my friends

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You can try what I did.  Adjust your settings so no one can tag you without you approving.  Also, set it so you get e-mails for wall posts, messages, and event invitations if you want.  You never have to login again if you don't want after that.  Deleting it just makes people talk about what an antisocial weirdo you've become and you'll probably have to explain yourself a few times and try not to come across like a dick who hates everyone.

In the chat side bar now you can ignore people without them knowing. You can turn off chat for people and it will never show you're online to them unless you turn it back on. Perfect for those people you can't delete because of certain reasons but don't want to talk to.

[Archie Bunker]

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Damn, really? From the things I've read their population is declining and the women rather not sacrifice their jobs for a child. But you're Japanese and you are living in Japan (unless you moved back to the US), so I'd take your word...

aside from slight cultural differences women are the same everywhere man...what i can tell you is that there are a shit ton of chicks over here looking for white dick so if you're able serve it then you need to do what you do what you does and give them what they want

[Turtle Boy]

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deleted my fb profile because i guess i'm a misanthrope. some of my "friends" are seriously pissed about it... they can go fuck themselves.

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Seriously thinking about doing it, or just removing 80% of my friends

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You can try what I did.  Adjust your settings so no one can tag you without you approving.  Also, set it so you get e-mails for wall posts, messages, and event invitations if you want.  You never have to login again if you don't want after that.  Deleting it just makes people talk about what an antisocial weirdo you've become and you'll probably have to explain yourself a few times and try not to come across like a dick who hates everyone.

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In the chat side bar now you can ignore people without them knowing. You can turn off chat for people and it will never show you're online to them unless you turn it back on. Perfect for those people you can't delete because of certain reasons but don't want to talk to.

I know, but just the fact of having to suffer from seeing news from their life in the newsfeed makes me angry. When people share some videos about soccer, basket ball, or some wannabee political/conscient shit like Kony 2012, then the same day instagram themselves duckfacing in the mirror or at a party getting drunk, it makes me feel really bad about the Human being.
I also hate people who constantly share newspaper articles about politics or conspiracy but are the same who never voted, buy Apple shit all day, always drink coca cola, eat Mc Donalds every week and complain about the economy.

It's not even hating it's just that some people look so dumb on fb. I'm deleting one of my friends every day, until I don't feel unconfortable on fb anymore. Some people got angry because of that, anyway if people get angry for getting deleted by some friend on fb, in my opinion it means two things: they give too much importance to fb, and second one, I don't want to be friend with people that gives too much importance to fb.


On other topic I love this deck

[Unbridled Technical Precision]

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deleted my fb profile because i guess i'm a misanthrope. some of my "friends" are seriously pissed about it... they can go fuck themselves.

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Seriously thinking about doing it, or just removing 80% of my friends

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You can try what I did.  Adjust your settings so no one can tag you without you approving.  Also, set it so you get e-mails for wall posts, messages, and event invitations if you want.  You never have to login again if you don't want after that.  Deleting it just makes people talk about what an antisocial weirdo you've become and you'll probably have to explain yourself a few times and try not to come across like a dick who hates everyone.

i deleted mine a couple years ago and it's pretty great not to have to keep up with all the bullshit. if i want to know what my friends are up to i text them or call them. i also don't have a twitter or instagram... it really lets you know who cares about you (and really lets you know who you care about) instead of using other people's "likes" for validation. too many people get caught up in staring at their little screens all day long, it kinda bums me out. but whatever, as long as they enjoy what they're doing with their technology, i just don't find it useful anymore

[Dontfearthereefer]

Facebook is the worst thing in the world, getting rid of social media is akin to removing a ball and chain

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Facebook is the worst thing in the world, getting rid of social media is akin to removing a ball and chain

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Sort of. Without facebook I wouldnt have gotten back in contact with some close friends. However if you have people on their that bitch or try to start drama constantly then yeah I see your point. Most of my post on there arent even serious. Also if someone bitches, post those stupid tumblr pics with the quotes, etc. Ill just post something poking fun at them. Some have actually stopped.

thanks for the tips man! very helpful

[AnotherHardDayAtTheOffice]

Im pretty sure I have premature ejaculation (PE). I usually last like 2-5 mins in bed, sometimes 10 mins on a good day. My ex-girlfriend didn't mind it much, but ever since we broke up due to a long-distance relationship, I have been too afraid to talk to other women because of this..

Maybe I'm a bit late on this one but try jerking off a couple of times, well... at least once, before meeting up with a girl you're likely to hook up with. I've had the same "problem" but it really helps a lot. Otherwise, just bust your first nut early and bang her again right after (as soon as you get it up again, that is). You'll last forever and she won't be complaining afterwards. Quite to the contrary probably... Oh, and the other guys are right. A little bit of alcohol helps as well!

That being said, it seems crazy how much of our self-esteem as well as social acceptance has to do with performance in the bedroom. If you think about it, it's not that important anyway.

As for my confession, at the moment I'm crazy about the song "Total Eclipse of the Heart". I listen to it all day every day right now. I know it's pathetic as fuck but still love it. I'm neither heartbroken, lonely nor in love at the moment but I am still obsessed with that fucking song. The other day me and a friend got drunk at his place and were seriously considering getting the lyrics tattooed somewhere. Sounded like a good idea at the time...

For those who don't know:

[BRIX SKWIKZ]

[Unbridled Technical Precision]

Nothing to do but enjoy what I have right now. 

there ya go man. all you have is a series of interlocking moments that overshadow eachother. if you aren't happy in the moment you're in now, chances are you won't be happy in the next. it's a cliche, but it's a cliche for a reason.... "all you have is now"

[Will Easley]

I believe I suffer from somewhat of a Jonah's Complex. I put alot of pressure on myself to succeed in the things I want to do, and I've always been the type to be really at whatever I put my time & effort into, but it seems like theres a tiny sliver of myself in the back of my mind holding me back, making me do alot of various little things that end up slowly sabotaging my goals. It sounds crazy even to me but its almost like im subconsciously scared of my own success, so I progress at much slower rate than what I know I'm capable of. Thankfully the weather's getting better in the midwest & ive been able to take my mind off it by skating. I was pretty rusty from not skating months at a time since september but I've been persistent & got just about all my skill/confidence/consistency back in about a week n a half of focused skateboarding. I dont necessarily put that much pressure on me when I skate outside of just landing tricks & having fun so I feel like its one of the few areas where I'm immune to said Jonah's complex. It's weird because if I knew someone else who had tons of potential to do something great but were scared of their own success & the responsibility that comes with it, I'd tell em to get their heads outta their ass & go live up to that potential, but since its actually me in this case, shits just frustrating & makes me feel like a hypocrite. I feel like I've always been my own worst enemy if anyones ever gonna stop me from doing something I wanna do its always gonna be me.

[Greg Ostertag]

I believe I suffer from somewhat of a Jonah's Complex. I put alot of pressure on myself to succeed in the things I want to do, and I've always been the type to be really at whatever I put my time & effort into, but it seems like theres a tiny sliver of myself in the back of my mind holding me back, making me do alot of various little things that end up slowly sabotaging my goals. It sounds crazy even to me but its almost like im subconsciously scared of my own success, so I progress at much slower rate than what I know I'm capable of. Thankfully the weather's getting better in the midwest & ive been able to take my mind off it by skating. I was pretty rusty from not skating months at a time since september but I've been persistent & got just about all my skill/confidence/consistency back in about a week n a half of focused skateboarding. I dont necessarily put that much pressure on me when I skate outside of just landing tricks & having fun so I feel like its one of the few areas where I'm immune to said Jonah's complex. It's weird because if I knew someone else who had tons of potential to do something great but were scared of their own success & the responsibility that comes with it, I'd tell em to get their heads outta their ass & go live up to that potential, but since its actually me in this case, shits just frustrating & makes me feel like a hypocrite. I feel like I've always been my own worst enemy if anyones ever gonna stop me from doing something I wanna do its always gonna be me.

The thought of success seems just as scary as the thought of failure, sometimes.

Often, I feel like when another person compliments me, or tells me I'm good at something, I'm sort of ruined and lose motivation to do that thing they thought I was good at.

[Frank]

I felt talking to my ex was restricting my life. I have no idea what will happen between us.

i know how that feels. i talked in great lengths on this thread about how fucked i was when i got dumped about 8months ago. we maintained a bit of contact for some time but now it's almost been half a year that i've heard nothing from her, all i know is she was dating a new guy back then and that's where i pulled the plug, blacklisted her on my phone and everything. i still have a hard time letting go. she was my best friend and i still have troubles handling shit without her.

i've met other women in the meantime but i have a hard time connecting with them or even act sympathetic. so i stopped and now i just wait until it goes away. been thinking a lot about catching up with her lately, but all my/her friends(she lives three hours away but we still have a somewhat shared circle of friends) say i shouldn't. she will definetely be in town through most of the summer and i have panic attacks thinking about meeting her for the first time since the break up.

it also sucks because i'm really reluctant now to invest any emotion into a new relationship. it all seems like it doesn't matter anyway. i can't even bring myself to fuck the pain away, although there are several girls asking me all the time to hit a bar with them or whatnot. it would be so easy but it seems to me that when i'm realizing i'm actually having a great time at something, i'm bummed at the same time that i can't share it with her. i know it's stupid, i just can't help myself. i guess she was "that" girl for me. breakups were usually no big deal for me, but this one's still a tough one.

[Beer Keg Peg Leg]

so can you finally post some nudes

[ice nine]

good effort but wrong frank

I hope by get over her man, im almost 2 years out of a breakup and still feel similar to you, it's hard as hell

[EPetrov]

it sux cuz i want to change and have a awesome attitude but something in my brain is preventing me. Ive exercised and everything. If someone sent me anti d meds to try, that be a blessing..The worst part is not being able to get excited or appreciate anything.

[Dontfearthereefer]

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I felt talking to my ex was restricting my life. I have no idea what will happen between us.

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i know how that feels. i talked in great lengths on this thread about how fucked i was when i got dumped about 8months ago. we maintained a bit of contact for some time but now it's almost been half a year that i've heard nothing from her, all i know is she was dating a new guy back then and that's where i pulled the plug, blacklisted her on my phone and everything. i still have a hard time letting go. she was my best friend and i still have troubles handling shit without her.

i've met other women in the meantime but i have a hard time connecting with them or even act sympathetic. so i stopped and now i just wait until it goes away. been thinking a lot about catching up with her lately, but all my/her friends(she lives three hours away but we still have a somewhat shared circle of friends) say i shouldn't. she will definetely be in town through most of the summer and i have panic attacks thinking about meeting her for the first time since the break up.

it also sucks because i'm really reluctant now to invest any emotion into a new relationship. it all seems like it doesn't matter anyway. i can't even bring myself to fuck the pain away, although there are several girls asking me all the time to hit a bar with them or whatnot. it would be so easy but it seems to me that when i'm realizing i'm actually having a great time at something, i'm bummed at the same time that i can't share it with her. i know it's stupid, i just can't help myself. i guess she was "that" girl for me. breakups were usually no big deal for me, but this one's still a tough one.

damn frank thats really shit

[Frank]

so can you finally post some nudes

don't have any, i'm sorry. i'm sure it would help me a lot tho if i gave the world the opportunity to virtually cum in her face. that i've never got around to make a fine nude portfolio of her is one of the many regrets i now have about this relationship.

[few123456789]

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I felt talking to my ex was restricting my life. I have no idea what will happen between us.

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i know how that feels. i talked in great lengths on this thread about how fucked i was when i got dumped about 8months ago. we maintained a bit of contact for some time but now it's almost been half a year that i've heard nothing from her, all i know is she was dating a new guy back then and that's where i pulled the plug, blacklisted her on my phone and everything. i still have a hard time letting go. she was my best friend and i still have troubles handling shit without her.

i've met other women in the meantime but i have a hard time connecting with them or even act sympathetic. so i stopped and now i just wait until it goes away. been thinking a lot about catching up with her lately, but all my/her friends(she lives three hours away but we still have a somewhat shared circle of friends) say i shouldn't. she will definetely be in town through most of the summer and i have panic attacks thinking about meeting her for the first time since the break up.

it also sucks because i'm really reluctant now to invest any emotion into a new relationship. it all seems like it doesn't matter anyway. i can't even bring myself to fuck the pain away, although there are several girls asking me all the time to hit a bar with them or whatnot. it would be so easy but it seems to me that when i'm realizing i'm actually having a great time at something, i'm bummed at the same time that i can't share it with her. i know it's stupid, i just can't help myself. i guess she was "that" girl for me. breakups were usually no big deal for me, but this one's still a tough one.

How old are you?

[Frank]

i'm 27 and i had my fair share of relationships, the longest one going for more than three years and i also shared a place with one of my ex-gfs. it's new to me because i'm still close to pretty much all my exs, i never had a problem with them having a new partner or something. i can't even tell what makes this one so different

[few123456789]

i'm 27 and i had my fair share of relationships, the longest one going for more than three years and i also shared a place with one of my ex-gfs. it's new to me because i'm still close to pretty much all my exs, i never had a problem with them having a new partner or something. i can't even tell what makes this one so different

I feel for you bro.  You're a few years older than I expected.

Don't date for a while.  There is nothing wrong with that.  You don't have to hook up either--in fact I encourage some solitary period.  Be confident that you don't need a woman.

Make friends with a girl you think is hot and that you like on a personal level.  The most important thing is that you are friends.  Once that is done (give it at least, at least a year), take her down.  Just go for it.  That should be easy.  Then she's yours.

Probably the best thing that ever happened to you was this ex leaving you. 

[Frank]

thanks man, that's pretty much what i'm going for now. just trying to be happy for myself.

[few123456789]

thanks man, that's pretty much what i'm going for now. just trying to be happy for myself.

Great.  You're money and you don't even know it. 

Take a long break though.  It's good for you.  When you realize you don't need any of them, and you honestly don't want to deal with any of them or their bullshit (comes with the territory), you find one.

[Laban Fetus]

I'm 20 years old and still living at home. I know this is an increasingly normal thing in America but it's literally driving me fucking crazy. Haven't been able to find a job for two years post high-school, didn't finish high-school to begin with, don't have a G.E.D., haven't gone to college among other things. My failure to do these things doesn't have anything to do with smarts (god knows how many times people have said i'm "bright and have potential") but more so with being a non-linear thinker who really can't focus on anything in the real world what-so-ever. Excuses? sure... but it's my reality. Being raised by two artist/hippie parents who didn't show much focus on me being a better student maybe added in to being a "head in the clouds" kind of guy.. who knows. Just coming to terms with being a lost cause here

[Will Easley]

I'm 20 years old and still living at home. I know this is an increasingly normal thing in America but it's literally driving me fucking crazy. Haven't been able to find a job for two years post high-school, didn't finish high-school to begin with, don't have a G.E.D., haven't gone to college among other things. My failure to do these things doesn't have anything to do with smarts (god knows how many times people have said i'm "bright and have potential") but more so with being a non-linear thinker who really can't focus on anything in the real world what-so-ever. Excuses? sure... but it's my reality. Being raised by two artist/hippie parents who didn't show much focus on me being a better student maybe added in to being a "head in the clouds" kind of guy.. who knows. Just coming to terms with being a lost cause here

its all about focus man. shit only gets older & more frustrating with time. eventually youll just say fuck it & start working towards something. find what it is you really wanna do. not just ona surface level, but what things in life actually bring you deep fulfillment & satisfaction? some people are driven to inspire people, others want to master a craft or learn about something...just find that niche & work from there. just start off small making small improvements here & there, but the main point to consistently take those baby steps every day & eventually it snowballs into something more fulfilling. you're fueled by the small successes that make you want to succeed more, and so on.

school shit aside, it sounds like you just arent totally sure with what you want to do with your life so you sit there just being stagnant. I'd advise reading Robert Greene's book Mastery. its about learning to take the necessary steps to become a "master" at anything over a long term apprenticeship. The book as a whole is great but at the beginning it speaks on the whole "finding what it is that you truly want to do" thing in depth & that is where i think you can apply some of that knowledge to better your life & feel good about yourself. nobodys a lost cause man i done seen the worst of niggas learn from their mistakes & go on to do good for themselves, and I believe that the experiences we have are what makes us so while you may be in somewhat of a bad period right now, hopefully in the future you'll find success & happiness from the lessons you've learned during that period. good luck fam

[Laban Fetus]

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I'm 20 years old and still living at home. I know this is an increasingly normal thing in America but it's literally driving me fucking crazy. Haven't been able to find a job for two years post high-school, didn't finish high-school to begin with, don't have a G.E.D., haven't gone to college among other things. My failure to do these things doesn't have anything to do with smarts (god knows how many times people have said i'm "bright and have potential") but more so with being a non-linear thinker who really can't focus on anything in the real world what-so-ever. Excuses? sure... but it's my reality. Being raised by two artist/hippie parents who didn't show much focus on me being a better student maybe added in to being a "head in the clouds" kind of guy.. who knows. Just coming to terms with being a lost cause here

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its all about focus man. shit only gets older & more frustrating with time. eventually youll just say fuck it & start working towards something. find what it is you really wanna do. not just ona surface level, but what things in life actually bring you deep fulfillment & satisfaction? some people are driven to inspire people, others want to master a craft or learn about something...just find that niche & work from there. just start off small making small improvements here & there, but the main point to consistently take those baby steps every day & eventually it snowballs into something more fulfilling. you're fueled by the small successes that make you want to succeed more, and so on.

school shit aside, it sounds like you just arent totally sure with what you want to do with your life so you sit there just being stagnant. I'd advise reading Robert Greene's book Mastery. its about learning to take the necessary steps to become a "master" at anything over a long term apprenticeship. The book as a whole is great but at the beginning it speaks on the whole "finding what it is that you truly want to do" thing in depth & that is where i think you can apply some of that knowledge to better your life & feel good about yourself. nobodys a lost cause man i done seen the worst of niggas learn from their mistakes & go on to do good for themselves, and I believe that the experiences we have are what makes us so while you may be in somewhat of a bad period right now, hopefully in the future you'll find success & happiness from the lessons you've learned during that period. good luck fam

I think I've given you shit on here before but thanks anyway. We actually have the same aspiration which is music. That's what is fulfilling to me and the ultimate goal but i'm just going through an uninspired period right now. The main focus is just to move out right now

[ice nine]

is there a way to lock this thread to skatedood and other idiots? don't ruin someone elses life just because yours is a trainwreck

[L33Tg33k]

What's wrong with what he said, Icenine? For real.

[Will Easley]

is there a way to lock this thread to skatedood and other idiots? don't ruin someone elses life just because yours is a trainwreck

explain to me how i just "ruined his life" by offering sound advice? and my life is far from a trainwreck. It aint perfect but i liked where im headed & where my minds at. i may wild out in other parts of slap but at least i dont try to shit on people in thread mostly used to vent & get advice. grow up.