real confessions

[shark tits]

I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

[SodaJerk]

I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

I got you l33t, first try no warm ups. You got this man.

[Exposure]

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I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

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I got you l33t, first try no warm ups. You got this man.

this really is key. Just dive into it and every time after it will get easier.

[waltercronkite]

I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

In my experience people usually cut you some slack if they know you are nervous and you can get away with being a pretty big dork. I mean i gave my current gf finger guns as a way to say good night after our first date and to my surprise she still wanted to see me again

So just do it be nervous say some dorky shit and it doesnt really matter.

[SodaJerk]

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In my experience people usually cut you some slack if they know you are nervous and you can get away with being a pretty big dork. I mean i gave my current gf finger guns as a way to say good night after our first date and to my surprise she still wanted to see me again

So just do it be nervous say some dorky shit and it doesnt really matter.

Finger guns are dorky? Damn I've got no game.

[SHAWN COMBOVER]

[L33Tg33k]

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I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

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In my experience people usually cut you some slack if they know you are nervous and you can get away with being a pretty big dork. I mean i gave my current gf finger guns as a way to say good night after our first date and to my surprise she still wanted to see me again

So just do it be nervous say some dorky shit and it doesnt really matter.

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Finger guns are dorky? Damn I've got no game.

No, no, you're thinking of finger bang, not finger gun. You're fine.

[BraveUlysses]

Got in trouble yesterday for taking some cheap 9 dollar headphones that I could've easily just paid for. In my head while I was doing it I told myself I should just pay for it but I didn't anyway. I've never been in trouble with the law for anything before but I'm nervous as fuck because I have to go to court. I'm really hoping to pay a small fine or something and get this off my record. I know I'm above doing dumb shit like this so this whole situation is really making me feel terrible and truly disappointed in myself.

[L33Tg33k]

It should be a slap on the wrists unless the judge is an asshole that wants to make an example out of you. Sometimes no matter how rational your thought process is you end up doing stupid shit. No one is immune. I'm so glad I never got caught for some of the worse things I've done. I think about them everyday along with the rest of my failures.

[SodaJerk]

Got in trouble yesterday for taking some cheap 9 dollar headphones that I could've easily just paid for. In my head while I was doing it I told myself I should just pay for it but I didn't anyway. I've never been in trouble with the law for anything before but I'm nervous as fuck because I have to go to court. I'm really hoping to pay a small fine or something and get this off my record. I know I'm above doing dumb shit like this so this whole situation is really making me feel terrible and truly disappointed in myself.

We all do stupid shit and occasionally we get caught doing it. From personal experience of court appearances the best advise I can give you is to ask as many people you know of reputable positions in society ie. former teachers, employers, any body you know with a title or a business or anyone that can provide a letterhead and tell them what you did and ask them to provide a statement of character on that letterhead with there details on it. The statement of character should make mention of how long they have known you, mention what you did and express that this was out of character for you and that you have expressed remorse for doing so. Ask for these to be presented to the judge. I was facing some serious charges for something I did whilst drunk off my ass and managed to escape a conviction without a criminal record and pay a fine and the judge said it was owing solely to the character testimonies I provided. Good luck BrvaUlysses

[BraveUlysses]

Thanks guys. I'll consider the letterhead thing but I feel uncomfortable with getting other people involved in some stupid shit that I did. Another problem with this whole situation is the time I have to be at the court is 9 a.m. and I don't have a car and I don't think any of my friends would be willing to wake up at 7 a.m. on a Tuesday to take me somewhere. I've been looking up public transportation routes but so far I haven't found any that fits where I am that lead to the courthouse.

[SodaJerk]

Thanks guys. I'll consider the letterhead thing but I feel uncomfortable with getting other people involved in some stupid shit that I did. Another problem with this whole situation is the time I have to be at the court is 9 a.m. and I don't have a car and I don't think any of my friends would be willing to wake up at 7 a.m. on a Tuesday to take me somewhere. I've been looking up public transportation routes but so far I haven't found any that fits where I am that lead to the courthouse.

In all seriousness, the letterhead thing makes a big difference. The exact words the judge said to me were "I grant one miracle a year, and in light of these references I can tell you are a good person that made a terrible mistake and you are honest and genuinely remorseful for what you have done, these are the best character references I've seen in years,  so this will be my miracle for this year..." He then asked how I felt about paying for the damage I caused and making a donation to a charity in place of a criminal record and possible jail time to which I quickly agreed to. The fact that I had confessed to other people and shown remorse was what won him over.

[shark tits]

Thanks guys. I'll consider the letterhead thing but I feel uncomfortable with getting other people involved in some stupid shit that I did. Another problem with this whole situation is the time I have to be at the court is 9 a.m. and I don't have a car and I don't think any of my friends would be willing to wake up at 7 a.m. on a Tuesday to take me somewhere. I've been looking up public transportation routes but so far I haven't found any that fits where I am that lead to the courthouse.

pay the rent, bro! just playin, shoplifting is awesome. i survived off petty theft for yrs. it's not a jail offense, it's just a fine that will be well over the $9 headphones you didn't get to keep. now you feel like you've gotta steal another few hundred dollars of stuff to achieve parity. don't get mad, get organized. shoplifters of the world, unite and take ovah!

[brycickle]

^^^Do not take life advice from him. Own up to it and take the consequences like a man. Chances are they will be minimal. Whenever you apply for a job that is anything significant, disclose this shit and explain it. If you try and hide it, they will find out and it will make your life that much more frustrating. Or don't, it's your prerogative.

[BraveUlysses]

Yeah I'm hoping to explain to the judge that what I did was a slip in my usual good judgement and even when I was going through with it I felt terrible(which is true). A lot of the stuff I've been reading online imply that I should get an attorney but I'm not sure if that's necessary. I'd be happy to just pay a fine or something as long as its under 200 bucks and this is taken off of my record. I've been reading about being able to get the charge reduced to littering so that's something I'll probably try to do as well. I just want to be done with all of this.

[shark tits]

Yeah I'm hoping to explain to the judge that what I did was a slip in my usual good judgement and even when I was going through with it I felt terrible(which is true) and ask to have it removed from my record as to not affect my future job prospects. I'd be happy just pay a fine or something as long as its under 200 bucks and this is taken off of my record. I've been reading about being able to get the charge reduced to littering so that's something I'll probably try to do as well. I just want to be done with all of this.

fuck anyone who doesn't like my advice. if you couldn't tell, i was quoting the smiths and wasn't telling you 100% this is what you should do. i've acted as a lawyer on my friend's behalf and got his skate trespass knocked out w/ a $50 fine [from a few hundred]. i'd advocate for you but i don't know you and you're prolly not from here. if it's a first offense they'll most likely offer you a deal where if you stay lowkey for 90 days it goes away. in legal parlance it's 'continued w/out a finding' but you have to plead guilty first so that if you mess up w/in that window it sticks to your record. your fine will prolly hover around the $200 mark, maybe $250. or, you can get a public pretender, do community service to pay for him before the court date and the judge may like your style and let it go because you paid your lawyer promptly.

[L33Tg33k]

I want to make an exit bag but it seems to take so much effort. I should probably just take my time buying the materials and put it together as I get them instead of buying the shit all at once and facing it as one daunting task. That would also help with the normalization of the act in my mind if it's something that I work on and contribute to over a length of time.

[shark tits]

I want to make an exit bag but it seems to take so much effort. I should probably just take my time buying the materials and put it together as I get them instead of buying the shit all at once and facing it as one daunting task. That would also help with the normalization of the act in my mind if it's something that I work on and contribute to over a length of time.

i don't know if you're just crying for help/serious/being a smartass [in which case fuck you, pal!] but as someone who's led a fairly unlivable life by my own admission [it prolly looks even worse from outside] and was all the time rolling the dice, dying, getting rescusitated or somehow else dodging the reaper, it gets better.
obviously quitting drinking helped me regulate my vicissitudes a ton but also hitting 30. maybe it's like PI and i drank away enough brain cells that hasidics no longer haunt me to help them figure their holy books out, mobsters no longer shake me down for lottery numbers and i can just enjoy a basketball court w/ a child's wonder.
stick around, guy. the good in life outweighs the bad if you think it does.

[ill_Murray]

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I want to make an exit bag but it seems to take so much effort. I should probably just take my time buying the materials and put it together as I get them instead of buying the shit all at once and facing it as one daunting task. That would also help with the normalization of the act in my mind if it's something that I work on and contribute to over a length of time.

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i don't know if you're just crying for help/serious/being a smartass [in which case fuck you, pal!] but as someone who's led a fairly unlivable life by my own admission [it prolly looks even worse from outside] and was all the time rolling the dice, dying, getting rescusitated or somehow else dodging the reaper, it gets better.
obviously quitting drinking helped me regulate my vicissitudes a ton but also hitting 30. maybe it's like PI and i drank away enough brain cells that hasidics no longer haunt me to help them figure their holy books out, mobsters no longer shake me down for lottery numbers and i can just enjoy a basketball court w/ a child's wonder.
stick around, guy. the good in life outweighs the bad if you think it does.

I think he means like some sort of prep kit of the end of society, not some suicide bag.

[L33Tg33k]

I very much so meant suicide bag. I really don't like life. I'm grateful to have been a piece of the universe that got to experience itself, but I don't like the experience. It's not for me.

[BRIX SKWIKZ]

GO SKATE YO

[paraquat]

I very much so meant suicide bag. I really don't like life. I'm grateful to have been a piece of the universe that got to experience itself, but I don't like the experience. It's not for me.

At least get laid before you completely write life off. If possible, form a connection with the person first, which makes it twice as fulfilling.

[SodaJerk]

I very much so meant suicide bag. I really don't like life. I'm grateful to have been a piece of the universe that got to experience itself, but I don't like the experience. It's not for me.

If you and Tay can agree to meet in a city of your choosing I will buy you a coupon to The Olive Garden or Red Lobster or something to take her out. No pressure to do anything other than have a nice meal.

[Aidan Clarke]

I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

I hate being that guy, but shit don't you have access to drugs?

[JB]

sometimes i dont think the gipper is right.

[tobey]

l33t maybe you should try different meds cause i remember seeing that you were on the same dosage as me for prozac and the prozac made me feel worst. i threw up every morning i couldn't go out, didn't talk to anyone and i even got separation anxiety from my mother (i was 19 at the time, who has separation anxiety from there mother in their late teens?) The only time i felt like myself was when i was drunk. Now i am on paxil and i even take a low dosage of that now cause when i was on like 50mg of it i felt like i wasn't real, like my mind was in a fog. But i also have meds for my panic attacks but i take less pills than i use to when i was on the prozac. I took about 7 pills a day for my panic attacks now i only take 3 pills a day so i see that as a huge success so far. When i was on the prozac i had a plan to kill myself, im not going to tell you my plan cause i don't want to give you any ideas but i was there and still am kind of there but i rarely think about it now. So it does get a little better but im not cured, i still can't drive anywhere thats more than 10 minutes away but im still trying and i have hope now

[ill_Murray]

I very much so meant suicide bag. I really don't like life. I'm grateful to have been a piece of the universe that got to experience itself, but I don't like the experience. It's not for me.

I'm sorry you feel that way, I've been there and there have been times where the only thing that kept me going was knowing how much pain it would cause my family and friends.  You need a change, not as dramatic as ending your life but maybe moving somewhere new? You seem like a pretty decent person, there's already a shortage of those so don't go fucking up the ratio anymore please.

[Bronson]

The girl Ive been seeing is either not that into me, is testing me, is seeing someone else or is hiding something...she has stood me up two times (always making new plans, though). I wish I would not get attached so easily or be so sensitive or paranoid. People freak me the fuck out.

[CumOnYourFace]

I very much so meant suicide bag. I really don't like life. I'm grateful to have been a piece of the universe that got to experience itself, but I don't like the experience. It's not for me.

Spend more time in the sunlight. Skate or do some sort of physical activity outdoors. Suicide is a giant "fuck you" to everyone who cares about you.

[Bronson]

l33t maybe you should try different meds cause i remember seeing that you were on the same dosage as me for prozac and the prozac made me feel worst. i threw up every morning i couldn't go out, didn't talk to anyone and i even got separation anxiety from my mother (i was 19 at the time, who has separation anxiety from there mother in their late teens?) The only time i felt like myself was when i was drunk. Now i am on paxil and i even take a low dosage of that now cause when i was on like 50mg of it i felt like i wasn't real, like my mind was in a fog. But i also have meds for my panic attacks but i take less pills than i use to when i was on the prozac. I took about 7 pills a day for my panic attacks now i only take 3 pills a day so i see that as a huge success so far. When i was on the prozac i had a plan to kill myself, im not going to tell you my plan cause i don't want to give you any ideas but i was there and still am kind of there but i rarely think about it now. So it does get a little better but im not cured, i still can't drive anywhere thats more than 10 minutes away but im still trying and i have hope now

I used to get those, along with panic attacks. You ever figure out what caused that stuff?