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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4890 on: June 16, 2014, 01:20:49 AM »
Tarela, you probably need to talk to her about all of that stuff. Figure out where she's at, and what she expects of you. Be honest about what you're willing to put into the relationship. Good luck.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4891 on: June 16, 2014, 07:19:27 AM »
Tarela, you probably need to talk to her about all of that stuff. Figure out where she's at, and what she expects of you. Be honest about what you're willing to put into the relationship. Good luck.

tried it already last night, she holds back, and puts up walls. Im gettin kinda tired of trying at this point
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4892 on: June 16, 2014, 07:43:06 AM »
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Tarela, you probably need to talk to her about all of that stuff. Figure out where she's at, and what she expects of you. Be honest about what you're willing to put into the relationship. Good luck.
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tried it already last night, she holds back, and puts up walls. Im gettin kinda tired of trying at this point
Yo if you are under 25 just bang it once more and move on.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4893 on: June 16, 2014, 07:48:15 AM »
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Tarela, you probably need to talk to her about all of that stuff. Figure out where she's at, and what she expects of you. Be honest about what you're willing to put into the relationship. Good luck.
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tried it already last night, she holds back, and puts up walls. Im gettin kinda tired of trying at this point
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Yo if you are under 25 just bang it once more and move on.

It's hard for sure man, nothing makes you feel better like the next one though.
ill murray, can you remind me why you think im a kook

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4894 on: June 16, 2014, 08:08:18 AM »
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Tarela, you probably need to talk to her about all of that stuff. Figure out where she's at, and what she expects of you. Be honest about what you're willing to put into the relationship. Good luck.
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tried it already last night, she holds back, and puts up walls. Im gettin kinda tired of trying at this point
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Yo if you are under 25 just bang it once more and move on.
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It's hard for sure man, nothing makes you feel better like the next one though.

@Paraquat haha why im pretty close to 25 but why is that the cutoff?
@ill_Murray your probably right on this one

I should probably just take the L on this one and keep it pushin..i cant tell whats her end game and even if what i suspected it was is right... isnt any good if they cant be upfront about it.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4895 on: June 16, 2014, 08:57:30 AM »
I guess depending on where you are in life, relationships with women come and go quickly sometimes in your 20's. Just pointing out that if you want it to be serious and she is not showing the same enthusiasm towards it, then I suggest you smash that ass and dash bro.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4896 on: June 16, 2014, 12:56:52 PM »
just woke up from a dream where michael jordan moved in on my street and put up a billboard that would tell what TV shows he was watching that night/inviting people to watch them with him in a private movie theatre at his house. pretty rad.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4897 on: June 16, 2014, 02:04:36 PM »
just woke up from a dream where michael jordan moved in on my street and put up a billboard that would tell what TV shows he was watching that night/inviting people to watch them with him in a private movie theatre at his house. pretty rad.

I wish I still had/could remember dreams. 
ill murray, can you remind me why you think im a kook

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4898 on: June 16, 2014, 04:00:12 PM »
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just woke up from a dream where michael jordan moved in on my street and put up a billboard that would tell what TV shows he was watching that night/inviting people to watch them with him in a private movie theatre at his house. pretty rad.
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I wish I still had/could remember dreams. 

most likely you just can't remember them. the average person dreams like 3-4 a night & only remembers 1 or 2 a week. if this has gone on for a long time and you just literally don't dream when you sleep then it could mean that you're sleep deprived and just aren't going thru enough REM cycles every night, and/or have built up a "sleep debt"

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« Reply #4899 on: June 16, 2014, 04:17:30 PM »
my buddy got drunk last night so his wife took the car from him today/made him sleep at his mother's. so we didn't work on the pyramid. or saw the lightpole. i texted him that i put my new setup together and wanted to film some stuff. he wrote back he was tired so i told him 'it's casual, i'm gonna be too tired/broke when it's time to cement that pyramid' then i bought a bag. didn't get as high as i would've liked to but i don't have rusty here to save my life right now either. [thanks rusty!]
if i'm the only one taking it serious, fuck it. as much as i enjoy building, i have more fun skating the honey farms plaza down my hill than anywhere else.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4900 on: June 16, 2014, 05:36:56 PM »
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just woke up from a dream where michael jordan moved in on my street and put up a billboard that would tell what TV shows he was watching that night/inviting people to watch them with him in a private movie theatre at his house. pretty rad.
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I wish I still had/could remember dreams. 
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most likely you just can't remember them. the average person dreams like 3-4 a night & only remembers 1 or 2 a week. if this has gone on for a long time and you just literally don't dream when you sleep then it could mean that you're sleep deprived and just aren't going thru enough REM cycles every night, and/or have built up a "sleep debt"

From what I've read online, smoking weed seems to do a decent amount of dream killing, but I'm not too upset about it.  While I don't really dream, I will have a pretty vivid nightmare every few months so if the THC keeps that shit away, I'm not too upset about just blanking out 8 hours. 

my buddy got drunk last night so his wife took the car from him today/made him sleep at his mother's. so we didn't work on the pyramid. or saw the lightpole. i texted him that i put my new setup together and wanted to film some stuff. he wrote back he was tired so i told him 'it's casual, i'm gonna be too tired/broke when it's time to cement that pyramid' then i bought a bag. didn't get as high as i would've liked to but i don't have rusty here to save my life right now either. [thanks rusty!]
if i'm the only one taking it serious, fuck it. as much as i enjoy building, i have more fun skating the honey farms plaza down my hill than anywhere else.

Shit man, unreliable people suck.  If you want something done right ya gotta do it yourself.
ill murray, can you remind me why you think im a kook

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4901 on: June 16, 2014, 05:39:54 PM »
i quit smoking weed for a few months and my dreams got way more vivid. fuck dreams tho weed is better

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4902 on: June 16, 2014, 05:45:47 PM »
i know ill murray but i can't drive so my building is contingent on someone w/ a car at the very least. it shouldn't be that big a deal but i've got lotsa self destructive proclivities and building keeps em away more or less. fuck codependency!
fuck it all though, halfassed watching the sox and gonna bomb down the hill solo after another coffee.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4903 on: June 16, 2014, 05:51:31 PM »
Real confession: i've accidentally smoked what i'm pretty sure was a bread crumb at least twice.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4904 on: June 16, 2014, 05:54:37 PM »
Real confession: i've accidentally smoked what i'm pretty sure was a bread crumb at least twice.


Seeing the bottom half of the grinder plummet towards earth full of ground up herb is not a good feeling, especially onto a rug. 

ill murray, can you remind me why you think im a kook

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4905 on: June 16, 2014, 06:12:36 PM »
I think I'll get high right now.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4906 on: June 16, 2014, 06:23:03 PM »
I think I'll get high right now.

I'm actually pretty curious what your preferred method of consumption is L33t
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4907 on: June 16, 2014, 06:52:08 PM »
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Real confession: i've accidentally smoked what i'm pretty sure was a bread crumb at least twice.
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Seeing the bottom half of the grinder plummet towards earth full of ground up herb is not a good feeling, especially onto a rug. 


Dog hair blunts

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4908 on: June 16, 2014, 07:20:30 PM »
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I think I'll get high right now.
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I'm actually pretty curious what your preferred method of consumption is L33t
I like edibles. They get you higher for longer and they cost less. You don't get the immediate effects like smoking but it doesn't matter when you're not hanging out with anyone. I'll smoke if someone else is supplying though. I'll break off a piece of chocolate with maybe about 20-30mg of thc and watch a movie with a beer when it kicks in. Might hit a movie theater too if I can get a cheap ticket.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4909 on: June 16, 2014, 07:49:15 PM »
I was thinking about going to the movies right now, but then it started seeming like it would be an ordeal. Paying money to be potentially stuck a movie I might not like. I won't want to leave if it sucks because I don't want to waste my money and I'll be too emotionally vested in the characters. And I gotta hope there aren't many people there. Fuck. I don't know any more. Fuck it, I'm going.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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« Reply #4910 on: June 16, 2014, 07:55:42 PM »
i went to the movies alone once i snuck in a little bottle of whiskey and saw cowboys vs aliens. i actually had a great time theres some stigma about going to the movies alone but if ytou bring whiskey and actually make an effort not to masturbate under your coat its actually a pretty cool and not sad at all

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4911 on: June 16, 2014, 08:02:12 PM »
i went to the movies alone once i snuck in a little bottle of whiskey and saw cowboys vs aliens. i actually had a great time theres some stigma about going to the movies alone but if ytou bring whiskey and actually make an effort not to masturbate under your coat its actually a pretty cool and not sad at all

I think as long as you don't shake your seat or kick the one in front of you some discreet masturbation is acceptable.
ill murray, can you remind me why you think im a kook

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« Reply #4912 on: June 16, 2014, 08:04:22 PM »
I was thinking about going to the movies right now, but then it started seeming like it would be an ordeal. Paying money to be potentially stuck a movie I might not like. I won't want to leave if it sucks because I don't want to waste my money and I'll be too emotionally vested in the characters. And I gotta hope there aren't many people there. Fuck. I don't know any more. Fuck it, I'm going.

What film are you seeing?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4913 on: June 16, 2014, 08:29:48 PM »
How to Train Your Dragon 2 or the X-Menses. I don't have a problem with going to the movies alone. I go alone a lot. It's just a matter of staying focused on positive things. It's the same as any drug trip, I imagine. Obviously, I find it hard to be positive but weed usually helps.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4914 on: June 17, 2014, 05:34:08 AM »
Are there workplaces with no drama?

I work at a female-dominated field, and while I find the work satisfying, I have encountered drama and talking shit behind others backs in all of the jobs Ive worked at, and it bums me out. I wonder if there is no escaping the drama. Does higher education or higher pay decrease the drama? Or increase it because of the competition? Do any of you work at a drama-free workplace? All the workplace politics make me feel rather paranoid and I wonder if there is no avoiding it in my field.

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« Reply #4915 on: June 17, 2014, 05:40:38 AM »
I have no sex drive at all. When I see an attractive man and appreciate his good looks, like art, but it does nothing for me. I feel like I'm missing a part of what it means to be human.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4916 on: June 17, 2014, 05:50:44 AM »
@bronson- I think as long as you work in a competitive environment, you will encounter drama.
@tay- how old are you? Is this an on going event? Going through a dry spell is normal.

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« Reply #4917 on: June 17, 2014, 06:15:55 AM »
@bronson- I think as long as you work in a competitive environment, you will encounter drama.
@tay- how old are you? Is this an on going event? Going through a dry spell is normal.

I wish it was a dry spell but, I'm almost 26 and have experienced non existent libido my whole life. I guess I should be thankful I found a charming man with the same problem. Sometimes I wonder though how our love life would be if there was a spark. Feels like we're missing all the romance because of it.

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« Reply #4918 on: June 17, 2014, 12:07:03 PM »
I have no sex drive at all. When I see an attractive man and appreciate his good looks, like art, but it does nothing for me. I feel like I'm missing a part of what it means to be human.
That might be a bummer, might not be, but you're def not "missing a part of what it means to be human". been lots of asexuals/celibates since the greek ages even. if you're not into it you're not into it.

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« Reply #4919 on: June 17, 2014, 12:58:49 PM »
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I have no sex drive at all. When I see an attractive man and appreciate his good looks, like art, but it does nothing for me. I feel like I'm missing a part of what it means to be human.
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That might be a bummer, might not be, but you're def not "missing a part of what it means to be human". been lots of asexuals/celibates since the greek ages even. if you're not into it you're not into it.
seriously tay. why ponder life's complexities when the leather runs smooth on the passenger se-eat?