How people go from talking to fucking is crazy to me. I feel like there are so many steps that I'm missing.
Its not simple, Yet its not hard too. There ear specific cues and traits you want to look for when you pick up girls for the "talking to fucking technique"(T.O.T.) Things you need to pick up on. Body language is a big thing. Something as simple as the colors she is wearing. Bright colors on a girl always mean I am ready to fuck or date or flirt. See a chick dressed in all black means shes closed and not receptive It may seem like bullshit, but there are thick books dedicated to reading people, from the way they walk to the way they dressed, it sucks but that's the reality of life. We are all judged and at times and we judge others, but luckily in the love/fucking/ mating game of men and women this is the advantage. Here are some pointers L33TGEEK:
You need to look at her body language, is she mirroring you? Google that technique. Is she giving open body language- is she ready to be approached or can you tell on her face she has the ?attitude problem??. How are you behaving? Are you in the corner, or are you THE MAN, walking around with confidence. Are you smiling? How is your body language. How is YOUR HYGENE? Hopefully you are grooming well. How are you clothes? You don't have to be GQ to get laid, but you need to take care of yourself. I'm a rocker myself, and though I do love suits, I look like I came out of Cbgbs half the time when I Skate and I still talk to chicks. I don't care whether its tie day or leather day . You gotta live everyday like its your last, BE CONFIDANT Where are you? Is it 10am at the library, or 2 am in a club. Which situation works? Answer:
DOESNT FUCKING MATTER. You can pick up a girl and fuck no matter where you are, if you take the right steps. What do you say to her? DO you talk about That kickflip 5-0, or do you make small talk about the what she appears to be interested in? I wouldn't talk the same game to a 45 year old Italian mother of two, that I would to a Busty Colombian 21 year old at the college bookstore.. Do you establish connection rapport? Make the girl feel comfortable, try to make her laugh. Break the touch barrier slightly but over do it
Make casual talk, but escalate it quickly AND invite her to a coffee or drink THAT SAME DAY. Then escalate it to get her to come back to your place. Say "Oh, I live right over there, you wanna go check that record collection I told you about". Also there are language phrases and all sorts of tools you can use. I'm telling you general shit we all know about already. You can become so good, you will never go without pussy. Always try to move things forward. Be smooth, but always JUDGE HER BODY LANGUAGE face and the way she is interacting with you. It is this that will tell you whether to continue to try or retreat. Don't waste your time if you cant get with the first girl the same day. If she rejects you, don give up try it on the second girl then the third pretty soon you will get the hang of it, and we will be hearing on Slap about how you picked up that "long-board chick" from the Skate park Don't give up man, Oh man there is so much information about PUA. You gotta look.