real confessions

[SpankerChief]

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it's so cool to have you guys with me in this one, thanks pals

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honestly with your friend and falling for his exgf do you see him around alot? it sounds shitty to do but if he isn't around much and you've got little to do with him much more then a hi and bye go for it. this world is only a microfraction of time to spend with someone you enjoy so rock till the wheels fall off. I have been there both dating a homies exgf and a homie dating an exgf, most times if it is brought up it makes it awkward by saying do you care?  if he has any sand he'll be over it too and not care.

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Nah, i almost don't see him anymore, we were buddies, but i saw how shitty he can be and took a step back.

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well if he isn't much of a friend these days and kind of sucked with her, you shouldn't even sweat it. it'd be different if it were right after they but if it is years he shouldn't mind.

Had an exgf whom I made an alternate persona about she was a whore. I should have seen all the signs on the wall. bitch hopped more dicks then I have freight trains. Around the time we both kinda fizzled out and wanted out, I hooked up were her older sister even though she was married, whole family was kinda sketchy in that aspect. 

I had just got off and everyone was on the stoop except exgf, I drank a beer and was like where's so  and so? everyone was quite and shit. kicked open the bedroom door to her and a kinda homie hooking up. I was an asshole and yelled threw shit at both them told em to get the fuck out yada yada etc, it  was 3 fucking days after we ended it  and here she is being a whore.  I ended up leaving her the apt. learned later on she became an escort and gettting super strungout and dying they had to unfreeze her body to do an autopsy. I don't like speaking ill of those that are gone but the amount of bullshit I had to put up with being with her, karma is a bitch and you reap what you sow in this world.

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That's a terrible situation, but how are you these days?

ummm not bad actually that was a situation that got resolved over 10+ years ago, mainly these days is keeping my sanity in check and not skipping meds, skipping meds means I go back to the nuthut but that's a entirely different situation.

I got married a few years after that whole situation happened and I am stoked these days. Free house good living situation got my own money for the end of days.

I found out about the situation vicariously through a friends exgf who was close to my ex and they explained it all. I am not so bitter and I know writing it out in a previous comment seems like I am being too harsh, however I did wish the best of luck for her even though it was a shit moment in our lives. I wouldn't want that to happen to anyone I feel bad for her family.

[snowman600]

I've been skating alone with earbuds consistently for the last 8-10 years. I've grown so used to it that I can't stand the sound of my board without them, and I feel bored without the music. It's not really a social issue since I don't go to skateparks, but running into other skaters at a flatground spot makes for an awkward time. What do I do?!

[Dwyck]

Try to make a habit out of something like a skate sesh without ewr buds, like going for a run or a workout? then you could inch yourself toward skating w/o em

[iKobrakai]

I've been skating alone with earbuds consistently for the last 8-10 years. I've grown so used to it that I can't stand the sound of my board without them, and I feel bored without the music. It's not really a social issue since I don't go to skateparks, but running into other skaters at a flatground spot makes for an awkward time. What do I do?!

I never understood how people could deal with phones, cords, charging shit, etc...

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ive never had allen hardware . always just get shop phillips cuz it’s he cheapest but phillips sucks man that shit strips second board swap .. def going to buy some allen today

[mynameisnotjeff]

My ex got me a ToA mystery box and there was a polar board in it. I gripped it recently as my current feels like it may go soon but, I have the feeling that there may be some bad juju in there.

[themanwhomakes]

I will gladly take it off your hands if you’re still in Chico 

[mynameisnotjeff]

I will gladly take it off your hands if you’re still in Chico 

Might be willing to trade

[Complements4U]

I genuinely have no fucking clue why Owen thinks I'm a teddy bear bitch. I've seriously read it in my journal everyday since he told me and I can't comprehend it. I'm not a teddy bear that's a race of plush bear and its obviously nothing like my tiny head, perfect smile and large pecs. Seriously. I look nothing like a teddy bear how could someone make that mistake? I'll never live it down.

[silhouette]

I genuinely have no fucking clue why Owen thinks I'm a teddy bear bitch. I've seriously read it in my journal everyday since he told me and I can't comprehend it. I'm not a teddy bear that's a race of plush bear and its obviously nothing like my tiny head, perfect smile and large pecs. Seriously. I look nothing like a teddy bear how could someone make that mistake? I'll never live it down.

Just bear with it

[Complements4U]

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I genuinely have no fucking clue why Owen thinks I'm a teddy bear bitch. I've seriously read it in my journal everyday since he told me and I can't comprehend it. I'm not a teddy bear that's a race of plush bear and its obviously nothing like my tiny head, perfect smile and large pecs. Seriously. I look nothing like a teddy bear how could someone make that mistake? I'll never live it down.

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Just bear with it

Ill definitely bear that in mind next time im cryin in my journal or maxing out the benchpress.

[Francis Xavier]

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I genuinely have no fucking clue why Owen thinks I'm a teddy bear bitch. I've seriously read it in my journal everyday since he told me and I can't comprehend it. I'm not a teddy bear that's a race of plush bear and its obviously nothing like my tiny head, perfect smile and large pecs. Seriously. I look nothing like a teddy bear how could someone make that mistake? I'll never live it down.

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Just bear with it

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Ill definitely bear that in mind next time im cryin in my journal or maxing out the benchpress.

You should be hibernating,focus.

[Complements4U]

The fuck you mean its nondenning period and the start of breeding season. What a goofball you are Francis.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

I've been skating alone with earbuds consistently for the last 8-10 years. I've grown so used to it that I can't stand the sound of my board without them, and I feel bored without the music. It's not really a social issue since I don't go to skateparks, but running into other skaters at a flatground spot makes for an awkward time. What do I do?!

  If youd rather the awkwardness, leave them in.

[NegativeCreep]

I skate with earbuds sometimes, if people are around I only put one in so I can hear my surroundings better.

[SneakySecrets]

For the longest time, I thought harakiri was Harry Caray. 

[jakeumms]

For the longest time, I thought harakiri was Harry Caray.

You're cool...that was the gag. Harry Caray was a stage name that was meant to evoke the Japanese suicide ritual.

[feedmeseymour]

The fuck you mean its nondenning period and the start of breeding season. What a goofball you are Francis.

francis might be the wrong bear to poke


but on a real note, this is a safe space, are you a furry or what? just think, there arent any popular furry skaters so this could be your break into skate stardom. the dude ive bought weed from for the last ten years is a furry and goes to weird sex parties and wears a fox tail and shit so im sure you'd have a good time.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

    (Preface; thought this was the awkward sexual thread but its still confessional)  Not sexual but ya know when meet girls you dont know very well and ur saying ur good byes and they come in for the hug i just say "can we skip it?" Hugging strangers kinda sucks. I feel like im giving my energy out that i need for myself.  Ill kiss a girl i dont know (cause that leads to somthing and because its sweet) but i can miss these pointless hugs.  Same with all dude hugs in general. - i dont hate it but its void of any authentic feeling of affection for me.  -just motions.

[JB]

    (Preface; thought this was the awkward sexual thread but its still confessional)  Not sexual but ya know when meet girls you dont know very well and ur saying ur good byes and they come in for the hug i just say "can we skip it?" Hugging strangers kinda sucks. I feel like im giving my energy out that i need for myself.  Ill kiss a girl i dont know (cause that leads to somthing and because its sweet) but i can miss these pointless hugs.  Same with all dude hugs in general. - i dont hate it but its void of any authentic feeling of affection for me.  -just motions.

I feel you on this. I barely hug my family. We weren't affectionate when I was growing up, so I come off as a bit cold to people, and I definitely don't like being touched by strangers or people who I don't know well. It sort of backfired on me a few months ago when my wife and I were out with some of her coworkers. One of them came up to me when I wasn't paying attention and tried to hug me and say hi and I totally winced and backed away because I wasn't ready for a hug from a stranger. She looked at me like "what the fuck is wrong with you?" I was able to play it off and now I make a big stupid deal to give her a hug every time I see her, but it all could've been avoided if people would just keep their damn hands to theirselves.

My wife is the opposite and gives everyone hugs. I always hate that moment when she finishes with someone and I have to give them the look of "we doing this too?" when I'd rather just not.

[Francis Xavier]

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The fuck you mean its nondenning period and the start of breeding season. What a goofball you are Francis.

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francis might be the wrong bear to poke


but on a real note, this is a safe space, are you a furry or what? just think, there arent any popular furry skaters so this could be your break into skate stardom. the dude ive bought weed from for the last ten years is a furry and goes to weird sex parties and wears a fox tail and shit so im sure you'd have a good time.

Seymour knows.

Anyways,I'm mostly on your shit complements4U because I told you to focus,  and you obliged...but then came back. As far as I know, I, nor any other pal rubbed a teddy bear to bring you back here with you random nonsense.

shalom.

Jb and cigs, save your hugs but embrace the ones that are given. I used to feel the same way,but changed over time as it became a normal thing saying bye to friends and stuff,mostly girls,but some of my good friends get the handshake half hug.

I have never hugged anyone after landing a trick though,and most likely wont,ever.

[Complements4U]

For fuck sakes dude I'm not a teddy bear. I'm gonna go workout my Pecs there's no way they are big enough yet cause you keep misidentifying me too. Maybe it's not just owen being silly my head must still be too damn big. I should've trusted his judgement he's always so damn observant and on top of shit.

[Francis Xavier]

For fuck sakes dude I'm not a teddy bear. I'm gonna go workout my Pecs there's no way they are big enough yet cause you keep misidentifying me too. Maybe it's not just owen being silly my head must still be too damn big. I should've trusted his judgement he's always so damn observant and on top of shit.

Just get a boob job

[SpankerChief]

speaking of affection hugs and handshakes, something that probably belongs in pet peeves you guy's brought it up, but those two things in particular I am judging the shit out of you, if you aren't a homie/gf or wife don't fucking touch me...... plus limp handshakes to me signify a disinterest and lack of respect for yourself and others.
shake my hand like a fucking man and don't be a pooosey...

[smellsdead]

i feel like melissa joan hart can roll a nice joint

[Complements4U]

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The fuck you mean its nondenning period and the start of breeding season. What a goofball you are Francis.

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francis might be the wrong bear to poke


but on a real note, this is a safe space, are you a furry or what? just think, there arent any popular furry skaters so this could be your break into skate stardom. the dude ive bought weed from for the last ten years is a furry and goes to weird sex parties and wears a fox tail and shit so im sure you'd have a good time.

No furries are anthropomorphic bear ripoffs on some fuck shit in my personal opinion. There's nothing anthropomorphic or sexual here. But I don't hate them it's just not real bears. Same with that royalty free bear image you shared he doesn't have any personality just another human spinoff pandering to human characteristics. Royalty free with no personality and no commitment. My name is John bOn JovO, I have a nice smile and I'm just doing my best at being a tiny headed dude. I think you guys are all cool lads and I wanna share my compliments in a simply complementary way; no acknowledgment from anyone required. You can just periodically look over to my corner whenever Ur feeling down or insecure and I'll smile at you. Or you don't have 2 do dat either. U can just punch me periodically I'm really soft I can take it. I'm still gonna be smilin.

[iKobrakai]

i feel like melissa joan hart can roll a nice joint

Her Insta looks like a regular soccer moms Insta.

[L33Tg33k]

I want to go to a furry convention.

[jakeumms]

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i feel like melissa joan hart can roll a nice joint

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Her Insta looks like a regular soccer moms Insta.

Yeah I got all stoked for a second. I love me some Sabrina. She has clearly moved on.

[Complements4U]

I want to go to a furry convention.

I'd go with you it would be the best day of my life hangin out with a cool dude like you