real confessions

[DaleSr]

first pregnancy scare at 22.....
sweating the results and dont know who to talk to

Why are you sweating the results? Is the possible pregnancy not with a consistent partner? Are they anti abortion and want to keep it?

[munchbox]

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first pregnancy scare at 22.....
sweating the results and dont know who to talk to

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Why are you sweating the results? Is the possible pregnancy not with a consistent partner? Are they anti abortion and want to keep it?

an ex that im still involved with

shes not anti abortion but her mother might be against it and shes a mamas girl. i trust her enough to make the right decision but i have pretty bad anxiety when it comes to worst case scenarios.

just not sure how to handle the whole deal and dont really want to bring it up to my old man

[layzieyez]

Everything will be ok. If she keeps it, you'll rise to the occasion.

Your dad might be excited to be a grandpa. You'll never know unless you tell him.

[DaleSr]

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first pregnancy scare at 22.....
sweating the results and dont know who to talk to

[close]

Why are you sweating the results? Is the possible pregnancy not with a consistent partner? Are they anti abortion and want to keep it?

[close]

an ex that im still involved with

shes not anti abortion but her mother might be against it and shes a mamas girl. i trust her enough to make the right decision but i have pretty bad anxiety when it comes to worst case scenarios.

just not sure how to handle the whole deal and dont really want to bring it up to my old man

I think the best thing to do is communicate with her openly and be honest with each other about your expectations

[GardenSkater77]

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first pregnancy scare at 22.....
sweating the results and dont know who to talk to

[close]

Why are you sweating the results? Is the possible pregnancy not with a consistent partner? Are they anti abortion and want to keep it?

[close]

an ex that im still involved with

shes not anti abortion but her mother might be against it and shes a mamas girl. i trust her enough to make the right decision but i have pretty bad anxiety when it comes to worst case scenarios.

just not sure how to handle the whole deal and dont really want to bring it up to my old man

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I think the best thing to do is communicate with her openly and be honest with each other about your expectations

At home tests are very accurate. If she tested positive then she is more than likely pregnant. If you have not tested do it.

Find out sooner than later and stay calm. You’ll be a good dad. It’s not ideal but get off to a good start with the mom and her family.

[munchbox]

probably should have stated that being a father would be a nightmare. would have to kiss my careers goodbye and same with my ex. realistically its not good for either of us

[GardenSkater77]

If she doesn’t want to tell her family then you shouldn’t tell your family until she decides what she wants to do. If this is not the girl, not the time and not the family then go to her doctor with her and support her decision. It’s your decision too so feel free to express what you want but ultimately you are in the backseat.

Good luck and be patient with the process.

[JB]

It happened to me at 23 or 24. She's now my wife, but this was like a month into our relationship and neither of us were ready to be parents together. We ended up getting an abortion which cost me every dollar I had at the time. I believe it was the best decision we could've made at the time, but it really fucked my wife up for a long time. The times she broke down about it were completely random, and happened pretty much until our daughter was born, and that was like 7 years into our relationship when we were ready for a baby.

Because this is already your ex, I'd seriously consider talking about this with her and how the two of you will now be connected for life if she chooses to keep it. Do you both want that, or is it the best decision to go through with the abortion and give yourselves the chance to move on? Just know that it might be a much more emotional decision for her that it is for you, so be there for her.

Parenthood is the best thing that I've done with my life, but it was a conscious decision my wife and I made when we were ready for it. I can't say it would be different with an unplanned child, but the whole thing should be something you're excited for, not something that makes you anxious. I wish you the best, man.

[straight]

what’s the scare? is it a positive test? need more info

[awwtawd]

that bawtawd guy sober now, atleat not a addict.  i can do things n pit em down now. funny im smokin on two fent bags somewhone gave me, but i def aint buyin no mo.

i be goin to na meetings too, mosly see if i can meet a good girl plus it free therapy get ahit off ya chest

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[JB]

that bawtawd guy sober now, atleat not a addict.  i can do things n pit em down now. funny im smokin on two fent bags somewhone gave me, but i def aint buyin no mo.

i be goin to na meetings too, mosly see if i can meet a good girl plus it free therapy get ahit off ya chest

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bawtawd is the only person on the planet who can be sober on fent

[iKobrakai]

It happened to me at 23 or 24. She's now my wife, but this was like a month into our relationship and neither of us were ready to be parents together. We ended up getting an abortion which cost me every dollar I had at the time. I believe it was the best decision we could've made at the time, but it really fucked my wife up for a long time. The times she broke down about it were completely random, and happened pretty much until our daughter was born, and that was like 7 years into our relationship when we were ready for a baby.

Because this is already your ex, I'd seriously consider talking about this with her and how the two of you will now be connected for life if she chooses to keep it. Do you both want that, or is it the best decision to go through with the abortion and give yourselves the chance to move on? Just know that it might be a much more emotional decision for her that it is for you, so be there for her.

Parenthood is the best thing that I've done with my life, but it was a conscious decision my wife and I made when we were ready for it. I can't say it would be different with an unplanned child, but the whole thing should be something you're excited for, not something that makes you anxious. I wish you the best, man.

I should probably never have kids.

[Fhk]

For the first time in my life im not horny.

I'm making up for it..I get even more horny the older I get. Shit, I hope I don't become one of those gross horny old men.

[DaleSr]

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For the first time in my life im not horny.

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I'm making up for it..I get even more horny the older I get. Shit, I hope I don't become one of those gross horny old men.

The ripping and the tearing

[Fhk]

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For the first time in my life im not horny.

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I'm making up for it..I get even more horny the older I get. Shit, I hope I don't become one of those gross horny old men.

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The ripping and the tearing

Haha gross!

[SneakySecrets]

I went through a ska phase.

[Fhk]

I went through a ska phase.

Suspenders?
Scaly cap?
So many questions...

[Freelancevagrant]

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I went through a ska phase.

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Suspenders?
Scaly cap?
So many questions...

Don’t just leave us hanging…

Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up

[SneakySecrets]

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I went through a ska phase.

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Suspenders?
Scaly cap?
So many questions...

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Don’t just leave us hanging…

Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up

Well I had a drawing of the Operation Ivy album cover guy on my dorm room door my freshman year of college and I saw The Toasters a couple of times and did that stupid ska-type dance that I wouldn’t be caught dead doing nowadays.  Listened to a lot of songs with the name “Rudy” in the lyrics.  These were dark times, my friends.

Thankfully I had enough self-awareness to not wear any suspenders or black and white checkered patterns.

[Fhk]

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I went through a ska phase.

[close]

Suspenders?
Scaly cap?
So many questions...

[close]

Don’t just leave us hanging…

Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up

[close]

Well I had a drawing of the Operation Ivy album cover guy on my dorm room door my freshman year of college and I saw The Toasters a couple of times and did that stupid ska-type dance that I wouldn’t be caught dead doing nowadays.  Listened to a lot of songs with the name “Rudy” in the lyrics.  These were dark times, my friends.

Thankfully I had enough self-awareness to not wear any suspenders or black and white checkered patterns.

It's there waiting for you if you ever need it.

Cue the horns.

[GardenSkater77]

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I went through a ska phase.

[close]

Suspenders?
Scaly cap?
So many questions...

[close]

Don’t just leave us hanging…

Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up

[close]

Well I had a drawing of the Operation Ivy album cover guy on my dorm room door my freshman year of college and I saw The Toasters a couple of times and did that stupid ska-type dance that I wouldn’t be caught dead doing nowadays.  Listened to a lot of songs with the name “Rudy” in the lyrics.  These were dark times, my friends.

Thankfully I had enough self-awareness to not wear any suspenders or black and white checkered patterns.

[Gray Imp Sausage Metal]

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I went through a ska phase.

[close]

Suspenders?
Scaly cap?
So many questions...

[close]

Don’t just leave us hanging…

Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up

[close]

Well I had a drawing of the Operation Ivy album cover guy on my dorm room door my freshman year of college and I saw The Toasters a couple of times and did that stupid ska-type dance that I wouldn’t be caught dead doing nowadays.  Listened to a lot of songs with the name “Rudy” in the lyrics.  These were dark times, my friends.

Thankfully I had enough self-awareness to not wear any suspenders or black and white checkered patterns.

Operation Ivy is a rite of passage

[Freelancevagrant]

I’ll say it right now, when I hear the horns hit in the beginning of reel big fish’s cover of take on me, I could kick a fucking door down.

[Fhk]

I’ll say it right now, when I hear the horns hit in the beginning of reel big fish’s cover of take on me, I could kick a fucking door down.

[blurst_of_times]

I’ll say it right now, when I hear the horns hit in the beginning of reel big fish’s cover of take on me, I could kick a fucking door down.

<3

[blurst_of_times]

Let's Face It by Mighty Mighty Bosstones  is a jam

[DaleSr]

Five iron frenzy, they were good they were good they were really really really good

[matty_c]

Lmao Rudy

You a good cunt, sneaky

[Fhk]

@SneakySecrets you brought all the rude boys out of the woodwork now.

[SneakySecrets]

@SneakySecrets you brought all the rude boys out of the woodwork now.

Bunch of nerds