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VHS, no judgment here at all, but I have a few questions:
What would happen if your girl caught you cheating? Does the thought of this keep you constantly paranoid or are you emotionally numb to it at this point?
How would you feel if she was having sex with random guys every time she'd go on her trips?
Important questions. I wasn't going to ask, but can we assume she's on her best behaviour out there? I like to think so, but If it came to light that she wasn't, would you come clean, or use it as leverage, bypassing 33rd degree, advancing to "Illuminati" level scumbaggery?
Wouldn't it be obligatory to hunker down and be all "Oh, you mother fucker. How could you?".
In that case, you had to find out on your own. Let them do their own work too.
See, I don't know that the hunker-down IS necessarily "obligatory" in VHS's (or any of us card-carrying members of the "Fraternal Order of Free and Accepted Scumbags") case, but that is certainly the question.
The answer to which I believe DOES impact our degree of mastery of the "lex non scripta" of Scumbaggonry.
I suppose the manner by which the "dirty deeds" come to light, should be given SOME consideration. Or should they?
Remember, the bigger crime than the cheating itself, is the getting caught. It's rude. It's lazy and disrespectful. Plot, ploy, scheme, creep, and definitely LIE. Deny, deny, deny. It takes work.
But, you know what a lie is? It's showing that you care. It's a little respect is what it is. It's saying "I care too much about your feelings to allow you to be exposed to the filthy, smutty, truth". And besides, a well told lie is just as good as the truth anyways.
So, let's say hypothetically VHS busts her cold. Walks in one day to her engaged in the most depraved acts of sexual theater known to man,
there may (or may not) be quad amputees involved, but YEAH, that's an auto-hunker all day.
At that point (again, hypothetically, NO disrespect to the actual woman and still assuming that in REALITY, she is comfy with VHS and hasn't a cheating bone in her body), not only is she a ho, she a rude, lazy, disrespectful ho, with NO manners. Didn't take enough care to fly below the radar and now she MUST be destroyed. And if that dame wants any dirt on me, she can hire a "Pet Dick".
But what if she "excercises her own demons" and drops all her stashes voluntarily? Does it change anything? Should it change anything? Must she still be destroyed?
She may have turned herself in, but she is still CAUGHT and THAT is the worst thing. Right?
However, the moral question I have at this point is, can we of the Fraternal Order, with knowledge of our own transgressions, allow the women (and men) that we supposedly LOVE, to shoulder 100% of the guilt that we KNOW deep down is equally ours to bare?
I believe this to be the point where the whole "house of cards" comes tumbling down for some.
Does VHS use this as a cue to drop his own stashes, let go of the guilt (assuming there is any) and level the emotional playing field with his woman as some members have claimed maybe best?
Does he "keep it zipped" and parlay this into the proverbial "get out of jail free card" he keeps tucked in his wallet, next to his Trojan, JUST in case he ever slips up?
Or does he drop her like a bad habit, never giving her the satisfaction of a response? Her punishment for being the one to get CAUGHT?
Or does he ___________?
I believe that our chosen course of action DOES determine our degree of mastery and to achieve 'Illuminati" level, you must always choose the path that YOU believe to be the most morally repugnant.